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I couldn't find the thread about announcing great news... I'm probably too excited to really look for it, lol. I just wanted to share, MY HUSBAND FINALLY HAS A JOB!!! He graduated from college in 2007 and has been looking for a job since then. He had 2 or 3 interviews a week (we live in the 4th largest city in the USA) and sent off at least 20+ resumes a day. Some of those interviews were fast food who didn't hire him - most because he doesn't look like the "idea, all american" boy... he's over weight, has a slight hunchback, and an unusual elongated face. He also has autism - almost could be aspergers syndrome. So yes, it has been very hard for him to get a job. But he got one, and a very good one. He will be doing tech support for a local web hosting company using the skills he learned in college (he majored in web programming and databases). It isn't a high paying job, but it is a job. We are so happy for him :)

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I'm so glad for you. This is a major accomplishment!

My grandson has aspergers. He has special challenges, but with training, they can be overcome--at least to some degree.

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Thank you everyone, yes it has been a challenging time. We are so blessed that my parents have been giving us money for our bills and helping with our daughter. We will still need some help, but not as much now :)

I am very proud of my husband - the good kind of pride :). He has overcome a lot in his life. Growing up, his dad told him several times that he was too stupid for college and that he shouldn't even bother trying to graduate high school with a diploma - but should just get a certificate of completion. Not only did my husband graduate high school (in 2000) with a diploma, but also college with a bachelors degree. Now he has a great job for him :)

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I couldn't find the thread about announcing great news

This was such great news, it deserved a thread of its own. Awesome news!!!!

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My husband's first day at the new job was today. But he ended up having to quit. They require their tech support to look at porn websites to make sure everything - including those nasty pictures, is working right. My husband did have a porn addiction problem when we first got married and neither of us wants to go through that again. He told me that when he was asked today if he would be willing to look at porn sites, he felt very sick to his stomach but at the same time he could hear a voice yelling at him to say yes. But he was strong and said that he was not willing to look at porn sites. I am proud of him for being strong and standing up for what we know is right. I'm also very upset with the hosting company for requiring that and not mentioning it at the interview. So he is back in the unemployed group looking for a job.

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My husband's first day at the new job was today. But he ended up having to quit. They require their tech support to look at porn websites to make sure everything - including those nasty pictures, is working right. My husband did have a porn addiction problem when we first got married and neither of us wants to go through that again. He told me that when he was asked today if he would be willing to look at porn sites, he felt very sick to his stomach but at the same time he could hear a voice yelling at him to say yes. But he was strong and said that he was not willing to look at porn sites. I am proud of him for being strong and standing up for what we know is right. I'm also very upset with the hosting company for requiring that and not mentioning it at the interview. So he is back in the unemployed group looking for a job.

Good for him, and although that is not a company worh working for, if he was fired, he could likely file a discrimination against religion case against that company. Just saying....

I am glad your husband chose the right and no doubt wonderful blessings await him.

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Well congrats, but what kind of job is it?

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Prophetofdoom and LDSJewess, thank you. It is nice to hear others say he made the right decision too. My dad - who is a counselor on the bishopric of his ward, also told my husband that he did the right thing.

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