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We do, too. Not sure of the rules and am not bothered by how many days in a row fireworks are permitted, but a bit annoyed when it's 11 o'clock or later and some people continue to blast off fireworks, I think it's insensitive, especially when you've got babies or young children trying to sleep and daddies/mamas that have to get up early the next day for work. We never could locate where those thoughtless fireworks were coming from but if they were visibly down the street - I would have fussed about it - or maybe I would have called the cops, assuming the 10 o'clock noise limit stands, not sure how it applies on certain holidays.

Read the OP and then just bits and pieces of everything else. Yes, knock it off! And whether or not you've interpreted this hug correctly, still, knock it off! I'd suggest avoiding any physical contact with this friend of yours if you're unable to keep a grip on things, this means, stop the hugging and maybe even visits until the coveting stops. Whatever you do, this is not a topic to spark with a once-upon-a-time fling. Get your head in the right place and start re-appreciating the woman you married. Do you guys have children? If so, wow - what a wonderful thing you share - a family! Whatever left over idleness your mind and body has - give that to your wife and kids...

Oh wait...this is a branch deal. So that covers just about everyone. Dunno then.

So let's just pretend that NO men exist in this situation. Could a relative or two (grandma, mother-in-law, sister) from another ward team up and watch the kiddos for a few hours during all this? This could be done at a designated home, or I guess, outside while everyone's inside (but that could pose a problem because littles - especially LITTLES - always tend to gravitate towards mama if she's nearby, so mama may not get anything done in that 2-3 hour session.)

I don't know if there's a rule about what colour underwear you must wear for baptism because nothing was ever said to me at mine, or when I was older and did some baptisms for the dead as a youth, but I found that white-on-white showed through a lot more under the baptism jumpsuit thingy. So I chose to wear darker colours that did not do that. Up to you unless it really is a deal (which like I said, no one ever said anything to me, so it might be whatever you're comfortable with.)

Saw Jurassic World for the second time today. Some of the family hadn't seen it yet. Still loved it and really liking Chris Pratt. Also watched Mr. Peabody & Sherman with the kiddos. Seen it a few times already. Good kids movie.

We want a quiet and relaxing July 4. If we get around to it, we'll checkout the parade this evening and catch fireworks at 9. Otherwise, totally chillin' and doin' NOTHING :) It'll be so nice and peaceful!

Husband because he likes to do that stuff, relaxes him, or something. But I think we'll be hiring a service soon.

I'm liking the restaurant card idea, might be nice for the two to get away from their kiddos, and dine out somewhere they normally wouldn't go but would like to. Otherwise... maybe the $50 isn't bad since it'll add up with other guests chipping, I think there's about 120 guests going, and counting!

Yes, that is tradition. Even though my husband is not Filipino, my gown was still adorned with pinned money. Oddly, I've attended other weddings non-Filipino and saw the same thing done but they were not westerners, so could be an Island thing or... not sure.

This is a neat idea. I might consider it for someone I'm much closer to.

I know that cash isn't considered a warm or sentimental gift but depending on the person it could be suitable. I'm going to a wedding/reception and the couple aren't just starting out. Both have been married before, both have children, both have homes with all the essentials inside. So I'm thinking a gift certificate somewhere is likely not as needed, I mean, why would it be? They don't need a microwave from Target or any one specific item, for that matter. The invitation does not mention any registry or preference for gifts, but being that it's a wedding, I'm pretty sure guests will arrive with something to offer. So maybe money? Any suggestions? (I'm not even going to bother asking the bride what she or her fiance want because the answer will be "Oh please don't feel you need to get us anything." I know that much.) Thanks!

She is a seasoned traveler and does go with him sometimes BUT his work has very high security clearances and so she cannot spend much time with him when he's actually working. So she ends up in hotels and she's not a fan.

How do you encourage - strongly encourage - a 75 year old dad to retire and enjoy his golden years with mum? Some background. Dad's/grandpa's occupation pays well, which is probably an understatement, I'd say they're very well off. Despite having no debts and living modestly, dad/grandpa continues to work overseas for long periods of time to fulfill business obligations. The thing is, he isn't even working full time but part time and yet his time remains valuable. The family has accepted his busy schedule and are understanding when he's missed anniversaries, birthdays, baptisms, and graduations - though to be fair - he makes them when he's able. In the last several years, us kids and grand kids, have noticed him physically slowing down. Certainly, a natural course of life but he also has a heart condition that has put him in the hospital multiple times while overseas and at least one of those times we thought we might lose him - some of us even flew over in case of the worst. In short, it's in his DNA to be a go-getter and he enjoys his job, but the family is wondering when's enough? On a few occasions mum/grandma will mention how she wishes he'd retire and if he feels compelled to maintain a "job" to maybe consider taking a position as a professor at a university here in the US. He's done some brief stints doing lectures on technology, chemistry, robotics, etc. and enjoyed it. But while she generally keeps quiet about how she feels on his absence, the rest of the family sees an aging woman without her husband, spending much of her time tending her yard and with little involvement other than church activities. The family really wants to see the two be together for the remainder of their 10-15 years. Do you think us kids have a place in this situation to voice our concerns to him? If so, what are points we could make and make tactfully. Dad/grandpa is a good man, a kind man, but the clock is ticking and time is becoming limited.

I agree with the idea that it's a ridiculous exercise. He told me over the weekend (he's submitting it today Monday) that he took a training where the instructor said NOT to give yourself perfect scores. So that really left an impression in his head. Ultimately, he gave him moderately high markings but not superb. Thanks for your thoughts.

This is true. I believe there's even a service or some kind of app that will make a "year book" out of your Facebook and or other social media accounts. I can't remember if it's virtual or an actual book that's put together and mailed to you... It's not free, though, I don't think.

I've been talking to a family member who's in the process of self evaluation for his job. To be more specific, evaluating various aspects of his work performance that will be reviewed by a superior. The scoring system he's been given is 1-4 (1 being poor and 4 being excellent). I believe him to be a hard worker, and knowing him personally, would vouch 4's for certain things (like being timely and a great team worker). Of course, my opinion means nothing, this is entirely up to him. The thing I'm noticing with him though, is he's afraid of giving himself perfect scores where he does feel that he's earned them, but is in fear that he'll come across over confident or even arrogant. So, if you give yourself perfect scores, that basically implies that there's no room for improvement, and bosses don't like that answer. On the other hand, bosses do appreciate a competent employee. Have any of you had to rate yourself for a job? What's a good guideline to go with? Or, if you are a boss that's reviewed these self evaluations, what's your take?

Might have been here, or elsewhere, but I remember someone mentioning adding lace or some other fabric at the hemline for an additional inch or two. The trick would be to find a material/colour that doesn't make the skirt look tacky.

I haven't followed this, other than what's flashed on the news for a brief moment. Don't know what to say, no words can really say anything that makes it better.

Hi, Eowyn! This is a topic I can address firsthand, as I resigned from the LDS Church earlier this year of 2015, and received my resignation confirmation letter within a few weeks of doing so. My answer, as a blanket statement, is yes. When it became known to family, friends, and neighbours, that I was officially no longer a member, an invisible wall slowly began to build itself. While, overall I was treated nice enough as a non-member, there are a handful of people that seem to think I have chosen my new path to live more worldly. This isn't the case, I left because I have not felt the peace in my heart and soul I was in search for as an LDS, and needed to breakaway and find truth for myself. I have come to conclusions that upset many of my LDS relationships. The non-blanket statement is, I am still treated as I was before by many of my LDS family, friends, and neighbours - in some ways - I've become the black sheep that needs extra attention and love, which I just don't get, I'm fine and I'm genuinely happy. I've had to be blunt with a few of them that I no longer with to further discuss anything gospel related, and I'd say 90% of them are good about it. Hope that helps.

I always do a shout out on Father's Day to my friends that are estranged from their father, lost their father, or are a father that has lost a child. It's so important that they're reached out to.

^ I have not heard "man purse" in some time! LMBO. I totally get the joint account thing. I worked as a nurse before (and some during my marriage to my husband) and we both had our own accounts. I made pretty good money on my own but when we started having kiddos, everything became joint, and there have definitely been times when one spouse thought a purchase ideal and the other not so much, but it's rare - we do a lot of talking before big ticket items are bought.

I took Latin in school, as well, but over time have not retained much of it. G'luck!

Jurassic World. Enjoyed it and becoming more and more a Chris Pratt fan. I remember the first movie being a bit gory, whereas, this one was pretty mild in that department. Nice CGI. Inside Out. A complex concept to grasp but I liked it and so did the family. I probably wouldn't watch it again but it was cute.

Jurassic World. Enjoyed it and becoming more and more a Chris Pratt fan. I remember the first movie being a bit gory, whereas, this one was pretty mild in that department. Nice CGI. Inside Out. A complex concept to grasp but I liked it and so did the family. I probably wouldn't watch it again but it was cute.