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I quite like how the handbook outlines Church gun policy. I don't feel any safer knowing someone is carrying, whether it's concealed or not, I just don't. I can appreciate the sentiment to keep "holy places" holy and not of the world or its worries. But, I don't go to church so I needn't concern myself over such a debate.

I haven't clicked the link but I saw this on the news...or somewhere. IF the person said they were going and RSVP'd themselves but never showed up - YES - bill them! Whether it's catering or buying a seat at a fancy restaurant, if you commit to attending, then no-show, you should reimburse the host. Otherwise, if you declined, then indeed it's tacky on the host's end.

We're talking specifically about women in postpartum. That's what I understood this thread to be about.

You'd have to live in a bubble if you can convince yourself that there isn't a spouse out there that has left their partner over something outrageously ridiculous as this. I would agree that most men aren't going to divorce their wife based on no-sex-for-six-weeks-postpartum BUT plenty have broken vows by engaging in pornography and or physical affairs outside of their marriage. I got friends that were still pregnant when their husband/boyfriend cheated on them in one way or another. So as far as that goes, it's common.

Seems like my mum is always making us chilled mango soup when we visit. It's so refreshing and ever so delicious! I haven't made it yet but everyone who has ever tried it, loves it, and wants to start making it too. As for my little family, we don't ever have guests over for dinner, rarely. We make pretty much everything that everyone else eats but minus animal product, we use subs, and it taste grand. Last night we had veggie lasagna (stuffed with spinach) and it was so yummy! I probably ate as much as my daughter and husband combined.

I really wanted to see Pan but so many people said it wasn't good. So now I'm not even excited about it, I'll just wait until it's out on RedBox, or maybe on Netflix... I heard the opposite about Goosebumps, though. Lots of positive reviews, overall, so I'm excited to take my kiddo to see this one.

I love the Monster Mash themed music idea... Not particularly 'cool' but I think it's a soundtrack almost anyone can get into and enjoy during the Halloween festivities!

I'd be interested to know who doesn't have a problem.

Get. Out. Do it while you and your children can. Enough damage has been done and there comes a point where you have to decide what quality of life you're willing to expose your children to. Don't second guess yourself and guilt trip yourself into thinking that walking away is a cowardly act. Sometimes, and by what you've described, doing so would in fact be an act of strength. Protect your children and protect yourself. I doubt you're thinking much about remarrying at this point, but if you're even the least bit worried about finding a supportive companion in the future - DON'T - there are still good and honest men out there that will treat you as an equal, respect you, and love you and your children. Ending note, lots of resources out there for women in your situation. Last year I helped a friend of mine get out of a very very similar situation with her husband, and they have four children, and it was the best decision she'd ever made since things had gone south. It wasn't easy but quality of life is healthier and safer for her and her children. Good luck.

All Creatures Great And Small (I think it was called?) It was actually surprisingly GOOD. Had a couple known actors voicing characters, including, Chris Evans but you'd never know it was him! I didn't know until credits rolled... The story is about Noah's ark and the 'approved' animal list to embark on it. It doesn't mention god at all, it's not religious based, it is about a 'creature' that doesn't know what he is or where he belongs...And in hopes to be saved from the flood, he tries to aboard the ark but a whole series of unfortunate events seem to occur. Great family movie, nothing remotely questionable, and the CGI is seriously beautiful. It's on RedBox right now, only DVD, but like I said it's still gorgeous viewing.

I dunno but I miss some of our older members being around :'(

Diversity doesn't need to equate to differing skin colour but visually seeing different ethnic races on stand would definitely bring variety and perhaps bring cultures together. Even if two Asians were up there, and both American born, the mere fact that they aren't Caucasian would have its own affect.

She'd have no problem in the Philippines, or most Asian countries, as the women there are constantly bleaching their skin and hair to appear more Caucasian. The blonde dyes are how a lot of Asians end up with that coppery bronzy tone to their naturally dark hair.

I'm sorry you feel so much regret and maybe even guilt? I hope you're able to look back on the things you did accomplish in helping your mother and grandmother. That aside, I never served a mission, but I've always sort of been a black sheep and it never appealed to me. But my father has often shared how he wished he'd served, but being a convert later in life, it didn't quite align for him. He does plan on serving a couples mission with my mum once he retires and hopes that will have its own impact.

Even doing it yourself might be a pain in the butt to colour. Maybe use a shampoo with colour? I'm not a hair stylist expert, so not sure how well that would work with naturally being dark and trying to maintain lighter hair. Wouldn't hurt to see what your hair stylist suggests, and what your options, if any are.

They look like a cute couple.

For high school, I didn't go to my 10th but my 20th is coming up in the next five years, and I highly doubt that I'll go. None of the people I was friends with during that time attended the last reunion and I'm guessing none of them will attend the upcoming one in a few years. I do follow our graduating class's Facebook page and it seems like the same 15 students are involved, and no one else, just them and their clique. I'm somewhat interested in attending my private school's reunion that'll be held back in the Philippines at the end of this year but timing just seems bad. I'm not opposed to traveling with kiddos but we'll have a newborn and I'm thinking it'll just be too dang much. G'luck with your decision.

It dawned on me the other day that: (1) we don't have a household landline and (2) our iPhones are locked. So this makes it impossible for our 4-year old to dial 911 for help. I've been talking with other mothers with children close in age to my daughter. It was suggested that she knows how to contact a trusted neighbour in the event that I'm unresponsive. I can't say that this is down-pat but she does understand that she should go next door to our resident police officer or across the culdesac to our resident nurse for help. (We're really lucky to have an officer and nurse right by us!) We've talked to both neighbours and their spouses, they know it's just us and our little girl in the house, and they've always said to holler if we ever needed anything. Anyway, any suggestions on emergency steps if the above is a no-go, and other neighbours are not answering their doors? She knows daddy's and mummy's first and last name. She knows the name of the city we live in. So she does know basic personal information. Not sure what else she should memorise. I've been thinking about her learning one of our phone numbers but we don't ever answer unknown calls, but if a message is left, we eventually listen to it. So that might actually not be a bad idea.

Wizard of Paws Until we figured out it was filmed in Arizona, I could have sworn it was a film made locally here in Utah. So many scenes just looked familiar! At any rate, definitely a kids movie, and not anything remarkable. Mostly low budget but it tried. I didn't know any of the actors, which, sometimes is a good thing. The plot was simple enough but towards the end it sort of dragged. My daughter seemed to lose interest as it neared the end but still enjoyable for a cheap rent. Not sure when we'll ever watch it again, though. On a positive note; completely 100% family friendly! Not a cuss word, innuendo, or anything of that nature.

Oh man. Sorry for the horrid typos. That's the difference between mobile and computer.

I haven't read ANY of the comments. Just responding to you, Backroads. I agree, 100%, a teenager should be capable of dialing 911 in an emergency. I'm not an expert in how 911 operators operate but I would guess that they are the best source for giving advice in dangerous and life-threatening situations (like how to administer CPR, what steps to take if someone is trapped, what things to look for in your surroundings to help authorities locate you, etc.) To defuse anyone whining about parents being able to do the same, I don't disagree that there are parents able to think rationally through emergencies BUT emergencies crews ARE for a multitude of crappy situations that could be between life and death. In the end, I'm glad the girl had sense to hide, as who knows what those two men might have done if they found here. But I hope in future, she will know that 911 should be her first call and response. My daughter will be four soon, and we've been talking about dialing 911 in emergencies, and such. I don't think you can ever be too young, if you're able to navigate a phone...

I'm with Eowyn. I wear what I like and feel best in. Half of the time, it apparently, follows trends.

As for high waist attire. I think some women can pull it off beautifully. I like the 50's high waist garments. Very classy and feminine.

The fashion forward crowd and trends have been 80's for awhile now. It's not new. It's actually rolling into 90's.

That is perfect. Short and to-point! Merci !