Hi Shan, You have a misunderstanding on this issue. That is not it at all. God, being soveriegn runs the show. Say He desires to have everyone saved, "That no one should perish" but ultimately, the person makes the choice, decision to recognize his/her fallen nature and the need for salvation. It is not, people just go through life "messing up" and then when it is over, God just says, "You're saved, you're not." Dr. T