lonetree

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    lonetree reacted to The Folk Prophet in Friendly advice for conservative Evangelicals (& LDS) from an gay rabbi?   
    Agree with the profound effect comment. But overall public acceptance in sheer numbers is not necessarily the prime variable, imo, for judging profoundness of impact. Without the media's subtle teachings of normalcy, getting right at the core of Joe-sixpack's moral center, the legality/illegality would never have been an issue in the first place.
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    lonetree reacted to Vort in Friendly advice for conservative Evangelicals (& LDS) from an gay rabbi?   
    Committed traditionalists are not the issue. The 90% of casual observers are the issue.
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    lonetree got a reaction from Backroads in If you were not LDS what religion would you be?   
    Protestant churches aren't always simple in their worship. The Lutherans, for example, can be quite ritualistic or liturgical. So can the Methodists. But I know what you mean...
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    lonetree got a reaction from Palerider in What’s the last movie you watched?   
    I love this movie(Hughes, Martin, Candy, what's not to like?), but I've looked high & low and cannot find my DVD copy of it here. I'll look again tomorrow.
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    lonetree reacted to Palerider in What’s the last movie you watched?   
    Planes Trains and Automobiles ...edited version
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    lonetree reacted to prisonchaplain in Good Gifts and Their Counterfeits   
    Uh...that was my point.  Likewise, if there are counterfeit tongues, it is because there are authentic tongues.  No one believes a fake fake.  Counterfeiting only works if there is first the authentic.
     
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    lonetree got a reaction from Windseeker in Count Down to Christmas Music   
    Hope it's not too early to post this particular 'remix' of a traditional American carol. I think it's beautiful, but it may be a bit sombre for some.
     

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    lonetree reacted to Windseeker in Count Down to Christmas Music   
    http://youtu.be/ADbJLo4x-tkI always liked this one
     

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    lonetree reacted to Crypto in How are you celebrating Thanksgiving?   
    Food, Family, Good conversation, often a disagreement or two.
     
    Maybe a game, or an activity of some sort, depending on the collective whim.
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    lonetree got a reaction from writesong in How are you celebrating Thanksgiving?   
    As a Canadian, the celebration of Thanksgiving took place with my family in October. Because I went to graduate school in the US and have good memories of the late November celebration, I try to take that Thursday off each year from work and celebrate here at home on my own as well-so I have two Thanksgivings.  My dog and cats eat a little better than usual on that day. Me? I can't cook a turkey or ham properly; but I can do the mashed potatoes thing easily enough. The rest I can get from a grocery store deli if need be. My best friend; who is a Jehovah's Witness, has promised to bring me over a pie this year-she finds the whole thing mildly amusing :).
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    lonetree reacted to writesong in How are you celebrating Thanksgiving?   
    I plan to assuage my HUNGARY with TURKEY dripping with GREECE served on plastic plates, as there is no CHINA in the Mess Hall at the Armed Forces Retirement Home.
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    lonetree reacted to Palerider in How are you celebrating Thanksgiving?   
    While I was serving in England during my mission we were always challenged as a mission to fast on Thanksgiving day. It always felt odd knowing it was Thanksgiving at home but not celebrated in England. My last Thanksgiving I spent in England we were fasting and our Ward Mission Leader asked us if we would meet with him at Church that evening. He knew what time we were going to end our fast and requested us to stop by the Church to meet him before going to our Flat to break our fast. Low and behold to our surprise several members had gotten together and made us a Thanksgiving dinner. I think we were both in tears and surprised and shocked and very appreciative of what they had done for us. It was a awesome dinner.
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    lonetree reacted to Vort in How are you celebrating Thanksgiving?   
    It's not a matter of better vs. worse, jerome. It's a matter of avoiding a sound beating at the hands of the Thanksgiving police when they find no turkey bones in your post-Thanksgiving yard waste.
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    lonetree reacted to pam in What’s the last movie you watched?   
    Thank goodness that didn't happen.  :)
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    lonetree reacted to PolarVortex in What’s the last movie you watched?   
    I see, thanks.
     
    While we're on the topic of movies with the word "queen" in the title, I found a wonderful little video on YouTube that summarizes the entire movie "Queen of Outer Space" in about 2 minutes with carefully selected snippets.  I thought it was a hoot.  
     
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Mc2B0wMmg0
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    lonetree reacted to srmaher in What The Traditional Family Has To Do With Achieving The Ameican Dream.   
    Bloomberg conducted a study a few years ago that showed most Americans no longer have faith in the American Dream. Bloomberg reported;
     
    "The widening gap between rich and poor is eroding faith in the American dream. By almost two to one — 64 percent to 33 percent — Americans say the U.S. no longer offers everyone an equal chance to get ahead, according to a Bloomberg National Poll. And some say the government isn't doing much to help."
     
    "The lack of faith is especially pronounced among those making less than $50,000 a year: By a 73 percent to 24 percent margin, they say the economy is unfair. Even 60 percent of those whose annual income is $100,000 or more bemoan the absence of a fair deal while 39 percent say everyone has an equal shot to advance."
     
    These results shouldn't surprise anyone. After all, the Media's preoccupation with income inequality ends up creating the perception in the minds of people that the American Dream is a myth and that the rich are getting richer at their expense. No wonder they want the government to intervene.
     
    The truth of the matter is that the American Dream has nothing to do with income inequality, but everything to do with whether or not you come from an intact family. The National Review featured an article on its website a few weeks ago, "What an Intact Family Has to Do with the American Dream, in Six Charts."
     
    The article discusses a study that reveals why those from intact homes are more likely to achive the American Dream. As the family continues to fall apart, its only logical that we will see an even greater divide between the rich and poor. Rather than focus on the root cause of the problems in society, this generation will turn to the government even more which will only make the problem worse. 
     
    To save the reader time, I went ahead and highlighted the main ideas from each of the six categories listed in the study.
     
     
    One: Fewer families are headed by married parents.
         “One big reason ordinary families are struggling is that fewer families are headed by married parents.” This matters “because married parents are more likely to pool their income, save more, and spend more on their children, compared with single parents. To make matters worse, this retreat from marriage is concentrated among Americans without college degrees.”

    Two: Children raised in intact families are less likely to fall afoul of detours on the road to the American Dream.
         “Boys and girls raised in intact families are more likely to flourish in the labor force later in life. One reason? They are less likely to fall afoul of the detours on the road to the American Dream that can put teens and young adults on the wrong track. A nonmarital birth, for instance, puts a real economic strain on both women and men. That’s partly because such births can derail schooling and decrease adults’ future chances of getting and staying married. And a stable family protects them against these kinds of detours. The chart below shows that young men and young women from intact families are, respectively, 5 and 12 percent less likely to have a child before marriage, compared with their peers from single-parent families.”
     
    Three: Children raised in intact families are more likely to acquire the human capital they need to live the American Dream.
        “Children from intact families are less likely to drop out of high school...to put this positively: Young men and women are more likely to acquire the education they need to compete in today’s global economy if they were raised in an intact home with both of their parents.”
         “Having two parents in the picture typically increases the amount of time, attention, encouragement, and money that can be devoted to a child’s education. It also protects children from the household moves and emotional stress associated with family instability, both factors that seem to hurt children’s odds of educational success in high school and beyond.”

    Four: Young men and women raised in intact families work more hours.
         “It’s a simple idea: On average, the more hours you work, the more experience you gain in the labor force and the more money you make. What’s clear from the data is that young men and young women who are raised by their own biological or adoptive parents in an intact family work more hours as young adults aged 28 to 30...our analyses suggest that part of the reason is that these young adults have more education and fewer children born out of wedlock in their personal histories.”
     
    Five: Young men raised in intact families make more money.
         “Today, young men and women who are raised by their own biological or adoptive parents in an intact family make more money. Specifically, 28- to 30-year-old men make more than $6,500 more than peers who come from single-parent families but otherwise hail from largely similar backgrounds; their family income is also about $16,000 greater, on average.”

    Six: Young women raised in intact families make more money.
         "Likewise, young women who grow up in an intact family also make more money for themselves and enjoy more family income, compared with their peers who grew up in single-parent families but who were otherwise comparable to them in most respects. They make at least $4,700 more personally, and enjoy family incomes that are at least $12,000 greater, compared with their female peers from single-parent families. Note here that one reason that these young women and men enjoy higher family incomes is that they are more likely to be married compared with their peers from non-intact families."
     
    The bottom line: “Both young men and young women who grow up in an intact, two-parent family have a leg up in today’s competitive economy. By contrast, young adults from single-parent families are much more likely to be floundering in this economy. It’s for that reason, in part, that Americans of all stripes — be they conservative or liberal — concerned about the health of the American Dream should be concerned about the health of the American family.”
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    lonetree reacted to Palerider in Hi All,   
    Welcome aboard !!!
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    lonetree reacted to pam in Hi All,   
    Welcome to the site.  I hope you enjoy your time here.
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    lonetree reacted to Silhouette in What’s the last movie you watched?   
    Frankenstein....the original one with Boris Karloff in the title role. I love these old Universal horror movies, so I thought it was great.