Issue is not whether or not a leader should be discussing LOC with the youth. Just for fun, let's assume a 16 year old is actually telling the truth and not a lying idiot as was remarked, a leader has no place cornering a youth on false pretenses accusing that an innocent video was anything other. Based on the information given, no commandment or law was broken or implied. Trust is given, not earned. Unless my child gives me reason not to, I absolutely will defend her in a situation like this.