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Oh - and about the aesthetics - the temple. But until you get there, nature is good, too.

Find some books by Neal A Maxwell or read his Conference talks. He was very intellectually based and offered a lot of food for thought.

Great input already and will add that I've seen both outcomes. One relative got married civilly and it quickly fell apart. Another relative got married civilly and were sealed a year later and have now been together 25 years and are as strong as ever. The difference: maturity level. I also have another relative that got married civilly and still isn't sealed after 30+ years because well...marriage can be rocky. If you do get married, just know that the first year can be tough so you really need to start on the best possible footing.

If you can, get a room with a partial kitchen or at least a fridge then go buy groceries. If this isn't doable, pb&j sandwiches with fruits and fresh veges is plenty easy. Just pack some basic utensils and napkins, some paper sacks or a cooler and you're set.

But they need to know that the needs of the members are not being met! How else are things going to change?

Yep. That's why I said "might/may not".

That might help in finding out who's been assigned but may not be helpful when it comes to getting someone assigned. When I served in that position, the RS president basically made assignments and changes since she was more familiar with circumstances, etc. Just tossing that out there.

I included links to all 3 because I can't really give a recommendation. Everyone is at different levels and prefers different approaches and methods, just as you implied, so just go with what fits you the best. Others may have more insights and maybe they'll chime in but that's all I've got.

How unfortunate (and unfortunately I can relate in some ways)! Here's what I would do: 1 - You may actually have been assigned a vt and ht but they're just not coming. Either way, go to the ward clerk and have him look up all info you're curious about (who's assigned to you and who dh is assigned to, etc). 2 - Approach these people and inform them how thrilled you'd be to see them and let them know when you're available. 3 - If in fact, nothing has been set up, make an appt to see the bishop. Don't look at it as going over heads, look at it as speaking up for all that is in this boat because you may not be the only one frustrated/disappointed/confused. Also, the bishop should be aware of what's going on (or not in this case). 4 - Offer to be part of the solution. You could easily serve in the nursery as well as vt supervisor (for instance). 5 - As far as being kept in the loop - talk to your Prim Sec to make sure they get all sign ups/flyers/announcements to you. Also, inquire about a ward fb page. If there isn't one, tell the bishop you'd get one going (= part of solution). 6 - Regarding Scouts - dh needs to approach bishopric and ask if he's still in there. If so, being more proactive may be in order. Ask regularly about meetings, show up on activity nights, etc. Hopefully some of this will work and you'll see some changes soon. x

These are from the church website and may be helpful for study: https://www.lds.org/manual/doctrine-and-covenants-student-manual?lang=eng https://www.lds.org/manual/church-history-in-the-fulness-of-times-student-manual?lang=eng https://www.lds.org/manual/doctrine-and-covenants-and-church-history-study-guide-for-home-study-seminary-students-2014?lang=eng As far as parts I love - sections 89 and 122 Congrats on finishing the Book of Mormon!

Just to add to estradling and yjacket - The LDS church also has missionaries. Again - volunteers who pay their own way (though some get help - from donations from other members - imagine that!). Why do I bring this up and how does it fit into the above posts? Because we don't just write checks or just hand out supplies and wish them the best. We show up. Case in point: My in-laws went to S. Africa for 18 months. While they were there, one thing they did was to help the locals figure out a way to get water. The agreement was that the Church would cover the costs if the people provided the labor. This way they got what they needed for basic living but they were invested in it since they did what they could themselves. This is the system that I personally can get behind and feel that the money I give is spent in the wisest possible way --- that actually helps the poor and needy rather than continue unhealthy cycles that I see as way to prevalent now-a-days.

Two things - -Your family (immediate and extended) is who you go to first when times get tough so go to them since the bishop isn't providing what you think he should. -How would walking away help anything (other than to *seemingly* pacify your feelings)?

Two ideas - - See about combining with another group and share responsibilities? - Decide to give it another x amount of time and call it good. This way you have a game plan and a timeline.

Then don't. Your house, your rules and I wouldn't allow the 'being Mormon' debate either. I'd probably stock a variety of herbal teas if you don't already.

Would jump at in a heartbeat - nursery (with my spouse!) Would like because I have some good ideas - provident living Would need to have a roundtable discussion before accepting to make sure everyone is on the same page since things are so currently mishandled - compassionate service

Yes, they are. So are missions but ever since I can remember, church leaders have encouraged people to work and save $ for them so why should this be any different? I'd send this person an e-mail something like this: Hi, I got this solicitation and feel to help. I don't believe in handouts but I do have a lawn that needs mowing, weeds that need pulling, a house that needs cleaning, a car that needs detailing, etc. Also, if you want to hold a yard sale, I can find things to donate for you to sell. Sincerely, ... PS I really do not appreciate that my e-mail was given to a third party. That is for church use only (as stated on the website) so please don't ever do that again. Cheers.

try this: there's a button for subtitles on the bottom right Enjoy!

This is inappropriate - the e-mail and the request. If someone can't afford to go, I guess they don't. Anyway, I would bring it up so others don't see this as a great idea and start to do the same. And I'm with Pam - there are so many ............... requests that it's hard to tell what's a want vs need. Saw one the other day that bothered me to no end.

That's all that matters.

For those that have had cancer - what was done for you or what would you have appreciated? For those with stewardship - what have you done or know of others doing for someone?

Honestly, it's not uncommon for kids to 'feel strongly' that they should do this or that so I would tell her something to the effect of: - we're so happy that you understand the importance of praying about decisions - it's obvious that this teacher cares and has some fun ideas that she's planned - but so does mom - therefore, we'll give homeschooling a try for half a year and reevaluate then If her anxiety improves that might tell you something but if not then either option is viable. Good luck.

Disagree. This is something for the parents to handle/help with. They see her more often and won't be released at any given time unlike a YW leader.

Call the Distribution Center: http://store.lds.org/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/GlobalServiceCenterView?catalogId=10557&langId=-1&storeId=715839595 And thanks for your service. God speed.

Did some googling and it looks like you have a couple options: - find an Oct 2012 Liahona (maybe Ensign as well), take off that page (inside front cover) and frame it - go to the artist's webpage (jeffhein.com) where there's a button to contact him then ask about a print

A significant other has the right to know! Furthermore, even if the guy lies then that's on him.