notquiteperfect

You can absolutely be forgiven! And it's never too late to join the Church. Maybe just do a new video with your testimony, etc. to help you feel better about the other one? Glad you had a change of heart. Thanks for sharing!

I wasn't aware of that - thanks for the insight!

In case it helps - Deseret Book also has some of Michael Dowdle's cds and you can go to itunes to listen to samples and/or buy downloads. Deseret Book Search for '' https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/michael-dowdle/id34019927

Remembered who I was thinking of. Michael Dowdle - here's his website (scroll down a bit) - Michael Dowdle | Music Hope that helps!

and another - Deseret Book Guitar Hymns CD by Ryan Tilby You might also have success with Pandora. I'm pretty sure you can choose a 'hymns on guitar' station. Wouldn't hurt to check.

Here's one. I know there are others so I'll keep thinking - Deseret Book A Green Hill Far Away: Sacred Hymns on Acoustic Guitar CD by Various

If this is to show while people wait for you to change - another option is to share testimonies or sing 'favorite hymns'. Since you're already showing a video earlier, this would add something different and involve those in attendance more. They can also end when time is up. Just a thought. Excited for you!

Maybe you're already aware and/or doing this but what came to my mind was that food affects mood and hormones so I suggest doing away with processed (man-made) 'food' and focus on real (God-made) food (mostly veges, some fruit, little dairy and meat). Oh, also, from what you described, you're wife might be too lenient and your kids know it...

Mobius - with what else you've shared, I also suggest counseling to help her separate from her mom, etc. I admire your patience - all the best.

First, welcome to the Church! Glad you found it! Now - I suggest you 'proceed with caution'. I think it would be fine to say that you'll miss her and ask if it would be ok to stay in touch but I'd let her take it from there. When I was in high school, my boyfriend said/did something that mirrored my patriarchal blessing and I took that to indicate he might be *the one*. He was a great guy - but is not my husband so I shouldn't have put as much weight in it as I did. Good luck with your move!

A therapist may help and you can also look into EFT, EmotionCode and Flower Essences. Just check google and/or youtube. I'm glad you're facing this now rather than later. x

Also - intention is the key difference between sin and innocence.

I suggest going to lds.org and finding quotes about how intimacy is important and good when married and then share them with her. I also recommend having her read "And They Were Not Ashamed" by Laura M. Brotherson. She also has a website that might be helpful: StrengtheningMarriage.com This may also be helpful: Clear This Belief That's Preventing Healthy Sexuality in Your Marriage - The Carol Blog

First, there are so many different callings in the church that teaching may very well not be where you're asked to serve first. Second, I love this quote by Neal A. Maxwell (former apostle): "God does not begin by asking us about our ability, but only about our availability, and if we then prove our dependability, he will increase our capability!" (Ensign, July 1975)

First, I think a lot of people get nervous praying in front of others so you're not alone. I suggest taking this in steps - 1st month - with missionaries at home 2nd month - with visiting/home teachers 3rd month - in Gospel Principles class 4th month - in RS/PH 5th month - Sacrament Mtg You can adjust the timeline but I think you need to have goals to work towards. There's someone in my ward who was baptized nearly 2 years ago and still won't pray in RS. You have to be willing to step out of your comfort zone at some point. Remember, too, that you're talking to Heavenly Father and no one remembers what you say anyway.

Although I stand by my earlier post - I've thought of a compromise - you - wear earplugs him - no more tv, eating, etc in bedroom You could try this for a bit to see how well it works and then try something else as needed.

I don't think it's too dressy but the sheerness at the top may not be the best. I *love* the shift dress (option 2 in op) in either color and it's even less expensive. Nine days and counting... :)

No one likes to be nagged and that's how this comes across so if I was getting all of that, this over-zealous approach would backfire. Actually, it may have and the wml doesn't realize it so I'd consider it the neighborly thing to do and fill him in.

I'd err on the side of caution myself and hang them on the wall instead. If saying these prayers became habit, I'd be wary if some of this slipped out while offering a prayer in public (Sacrament Mtg, etc) - it would seem rehearsed, not from me, and so on.

Sleep is so critical to physical, mental, emotional health that I think you need to do what you need to do. If your husband doesn't understand your pov and isn't willing to make adjustments - he should be the one in the guest room (assuming the bedroom is more comfortable). If you have kids, make sure you explain the situation so they don't panic. Also, if you do have kids, moms need a space that is theirs so you're perfectly justified in not wanting the bedroom to also act like a second kitchen/living room. I don't have these issues but if I were in your shoes, things would change *tonight*.

I've been racking my brain, googling, searching and it's time to ask for help. Though I've come up with some ideas, I need more and hope you'll share. What are some things kids ages 8-12 can do to serve the following: Grandparents (think out-of-state) Mom Dad Brother/s Sister/s Other/General What are some things kids have done for you that you've appreciated? What are some things you would have liked? I'd like a mix of open and secret, quick and not, etc. so don't be shy. Thanks so much!

Proverbs 3:5-6 5 ¶Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. And D&C 121:7-8 7 My son, peace be unto thy soul; thine adversity and thine afflictions shall be but a small moment; 8 And then, if thou endure it well, God shall exalt thee on high; thou shalt triumph over all thy foes.

First, I admire your willingness to serve - not everyone is. One suggestion is to talk to the Primary president and let her know where you're coming from and what's going on (you can always call her at home if you can't catch her during the last hour). You can also have the kids decide on class rules and consequences (if they help with it - they're more invested in it) - which would include bringing parents in to sit with them! I disagree that the kids are too young to converse with or look up scriptures. It may take longer but they need the practice. It also gets them more involved. As far as class itself, I like to start each week by getting to know them and trying to connect (asking them how their week was, what sports they like, etc) then have the lesson (with plenty of visuals and activities and music if possible - kids learn in different ways) and end with a game that reinforces the lesson (tic-tac-to, jeopardy, wheel of fortune, etc). Have it understood that the game is dependent on their reverence and participation (if you have to keep repeating yourself, there won't be time left). There's a manual "Teaching, No Greater Call" on lds.org with lots of information and ideas. Hope things turn around for you soon - hang in there!

I totally respect where you're coming from Lakumi. I think that people sometimes forget that "unless you've walked a mile in their shoes..."

First, the kids are adults now and both parents are psychiatrists. Frankly, I respect his honesty a heck of a lot more than what my friend (and countless others) put up with - a husband who was part of getting the kids here but now is only full of complaints and excuses and my friend is just left to hope he'll step up at some point. If it were me, I'd rather know his level of willingness before I took the kids on than after!