hopeful_to_return Posted November 7, 2010 Report Share Posted November 7, 2010 Hi there! Not sure if people do this but, would anyone be willing to help me if I messaged them in private? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beefche Posted November 7, 2010 Report Share Posted November 7, 2010 Help you with what? Just be aware that because this is a public forum, we get a lot of scammers. Your message is one that brings up red flags. You might be a spammer (have no idea) or you might receive spam because of the invitation to have private conversations. Just a warning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hopeful_to_return Posted November 7, 2010 Author Report Share Posted November 7, 2010 Understandable! I guess my first posting being one that asks for help in private to seem pretty suspicious. The deal is that I'm hoping to find advice on my current situation with a relationship but I'll just ask in public seeing as that is what FORUMS are for :) How do I find out the specifics on physical intimacy and what is appropriate? How do I know what is going 'too far' etc? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie Posted November 7, 2010 Report Share Posted November 7, 2010 LDS.org - Support Materials Chapter - ChastityLDS.org - Support Materials Chapter - The Law of Chastity Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jennvan Posted November 7, 2010 Report Share Posted November 7, 2010 I think it depends on the type of relationship you have. Is it a marriage relationship or dating/engaged relationship? And yes, I believe you can go "too far" in marriage relationships. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hopeful_to_return Posted November 8, 2010 Author Report Share Posted November 8, 2010 Thanks Connie for the resources. They were pretty specific. and jennvan, it's a dating/engaged relationship. I was not an active member when I fell in love, now I have a testimony for the first time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jennvan Posted November 8, 2010 Report Share Posted November 8, 2010 I appreciated the references Connie made and I would add For the Strength of Youth pamphlet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizzy12 Posted November 8, 2010 Report Share Posted November 8, 2010 Thanks Connie for the resources. They were pretty specific. and jennvan, it's a dating/engaged relationship. I was not an active member when I fell in love, now I have a testimony for the first time.My view is don't do anything you wouldn't do infront of your mother :)And...the only thing I can think of that would be innaproprite in a marriage relationships is bringing another person into the mix. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mahone Posted November 8, 2010 Report Share Posted November 8, 2010 My view is don't do anything you wouldn't do infront of your mother :)And...the only thing I can think of that would be innaproprite in a marriage relationships is bringing another person into the mix.Or animal (hey, it happens... believe it or not) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pam Posted November 8, 2010 Report Share Posted November 8, 2010 My view is don't do anything you wouldn't do infront of your mother :)And...the only thing I can think of that would be innaproprite in a marriage relationships is bringing another person into the mix. Well I certainly wouldn't have intimate relations with a spouse in front of my mother..so that statement doesn't entirely work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwen Posted November 8, 2010 Report Share Posted November 8, 2010 i think the don't do anything you wouldn't do in front of mom was specifically for the "it's a dating/engaged relationship" part of the comment. lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FunkyTown Posted November 8, 2010 Report Share Posted November 8, 2010 i think the don't do anything you wouldn't do in front of mom was specifically for the "it's a dating/engaged relationship" part of the comment. lolI have a slightly different rule. I won't do anything in private that I wouldn't do in public. It's served me well. I've never gotten in trouble. :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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