miko Posted April 17, 2008 Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 ok here it goes on one website im dating this girl(they think im a guy ok)while in real life im dating this really sweet guy while i have a crush on another person what should i do??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kirajo Posted April 17, 2008 Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 Haha sheesh, ummm, that's quite the pickle. Are you bisexual then? Or just messing around with people? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NeuroTypical Posted April 17, 2008 Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 what should i do???Enjoy the carefree days of youth? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miko Posted April 17, 2008 Author Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 yes i am bi infact the other person i like is a girl so im cought between two girls and i guy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MaidservantX Posted April 17, 2008 Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 You should be honest. Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tony_Mazz Posted April 17, 2008 Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 That's foul Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skalenfehl Posted April 17, 2008 Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 At 14, you should enjoy your youth and hang out with friends and eat ice cream and go to football games. But whatever you do in life, always choose the right. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iggy Posted April 17, 2008 Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 Perhaps you need to reread For The Strength of Youth - Standards: <i>For the Strength of Youth</i> not only should you read it, you need to study it thoroughly, and practice it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miko Posted April 17, 2008 Author Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 i think i mught go ahead and tell him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hemidakota Posted April 17, 2008 Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 Tell her and not him. Salvation is more important than lust or desire of lust. That is not true love. Lust is only temporal and love is eternal. Yes! Harsh words but in the end, just not worth it. Seen to many young people loose their eternal prospect than to enjoy life to the fullest. As skalenfehl's Avatar skalenfehl advised, enjoy life while in your youth and not to date [date leaves to problem in early portion of life] but have fun. Now, you have free agency but again, I caution you on your choices. As Iggy pointed out, read the article, it maybe helpful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WillowTheWhisp Posted April 17, 2008 Report Share Posted April 17, 2008 On a website you are not actually dating anyone. You are pretending to because you are even pretending to be someone you are not. What makes you so sure the other person is who you think she is? In real life you are too young to be dating anyone. Enjoy your childhood. Then seriously think about what kind of a mess you could be making of your life. If you do what is right you will not date until you are 16 and then you will date boys and only in group situations. Living a pretend life online is never a good idea at any age. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miko Posted April 23, 2008 Author Report Share Posted April 23, 2008 the girl i have a crush on already knows i like her i even asked her out and she said no but she alszo thinks that i am dating this guy as a rebound which im not and im starting to actrually REALLY like this guy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WillowTheWhisp Posted April 23, 2008 Report Share Posted April 23, 2008 ok here it goes on one website im dating this girl(they think im a guy ok)while in real life im dating this really sweet guy while i have a crush on another person what should i do???the girl i have a crush on already knows i like her i even asked her out and she said nobut she alszo thinks that i am dating this guy as a rebound which im not and im starting to actrually REALLY like this guySo, she thinks you are a guy and you asked her out? What would you have done if she'd said yes? Would you have then come clean that you are female or would you have tried to keep up the pretence in real life? You'd have to own up eventually. I'm thoroughly confused here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miko Posted April 23, 2008 Author Report Share Posted April 23, 2008 no the oter one her i'll give them names berry:dating tevin:guy dating carry:crush Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilered Posted April 23, 2008 Report Share Posted April 23, 2008 This is over my head. I barely was able to handle puppy love. :^) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
miko Posted April 24, 2008 Author Report Share Posted April 24, 2008 yeah well i wish that was all 9i had to deal with Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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