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Try directing their attention to another toy. In nursery I would turn of the lights and say " UH OH help me blow them back on..1...2...3.. " And all the kids would immediatly stop crying and help blow them on. .. Now that was during the day, so if it's dark outside dont turn them all off, just maybe one so they can still see, but the attention graber is set. Then you could get themall together to sing songs or play ring around the rosies, kids that age also love bubbles. If none of that works and you have even tried a snack, tell the other helpful girl to go take them to their mom. I am the enrichment leader in my ward, if you need more help please let them know and they should find more girls to be in there with you. It's ok that you can't do it all alone ,no one could and ther eis help if ya need it

interupt her. jk

That girl and her child were in my mother in laws ward. Those guys where nut jobs and the reason the girl got killed was because she called them on it. They said they were to be the next prophet yada yada and she spoke up and said that was blasphemy. Sorry but if my brother were to go around preaching how he is the next god and so forth, Id call him out too. P.S your right on one thing- nut jobs are everywhere. They come in ALL religions, Gender, Race, Age, regions, and so forth. So don't just look around you look EVERYWHERE.

By the time rotations are done, Your wife won't even look the same.. so I hear. jk

moocow, go read Elder hollands talk this past conference. It was the 2nd sat session I believe. It will help

\ Sorry,. I talked to her in Chat so I know it is a female

You know exactly what I mean. If you are showing your body to someone of the opposite sex besides going to the dr. or medical reasons, you are doing it to get either a compliment, a relationship, or arousal

She dated this guy, she showed him parts of her body, doesn't matter if he was arosed to it or not. She showed him something that she knows shouldn't have happened, otherwise she wouldn't be asking this question.

YEs you would have to go in ( I am not one to tell someone to go to the bishop for dumb petty things) but this is a huge thing, it's a break of the law of chastity. He saw things that only her husband shoulds ee

The church does talk about pornography does it not? So exposing your body or the body of others is guess what - Porn. It may not be the fake models your seeing, but it is still breaking the law of chastity. You already know what your to do, if the internet wasn't so easy to do things we normally wouldn't do in person it would save us from a lot of sorrow. Go get it over with, so you can be free from the bondage you have. We aren't the catholic church where we go confess and they say you are forgiven. The bishop is there to help you on the road of repetance and will have more respect for you coming in so he can help you andhopefully lead you to the temple.

p.s normally excommunication comes when the person is not repentant and will not change, he may have some church disapline but the bishop is there to help, not to chastise. Good luck

I would just repent of everything, get it all out in the open. I once had to swallow my pride and let It ALL out not just one thing at atime.

"The great and the Terrible series"- This was probably the scariest (real life) end of the world book I have ever read. THe first book (The Brothers) took some time to get into, but read it fast and the rest are GREAT! " Hunger Games" - I couldn't put this book or it's series "Catching Fire" Down. It's like Gladator meets surivivor. It's popular right now and totally worth it. "Hubener Vrs. Hitler" I am a wwII fanatic. this is a true story about a 15 year old mormon kid that starts a propganda against hitler. "He did deliver me out of bondage" anyone dealing with the repentance process or 12 steps/ to any addiction this is a must read "FOrgiving ourselves"- This was the best book that brings in a whole new light of hope. "I'm not perfect, can I still go to the CElestial Kingdom"- This book is mainly for teens but I LOVE how it explains scary words like "Damnation" and "perfection" once you understand what it means, the gospel isn't so scary and it's pretty simple. Must read for all.

LOVED them!! I think the third comes out in the fall!!!

the gospel is what is really going to help you in these times, or in anytimes really. Go for you, start simple,. try sacrament meeting and if you are to nervous, then next week try sacrament and sunday school. then the next all three... be friendly and you will gain the friendships you need. Hang in there buddy

Ask for others help when you need it. If no one volunteers, call them.

There are only a few 12 step programs where husbands and wives meet together. Most are women go in one room men go in the other. You and your spouse need to hear their pain. the others pain, and the way to get through it. It's nothing like a church meeting. Not a dry eye in that room, you bond you gain hope and help. Please contact the lds.family services on lds.org or the church directly and tell them WE NEED THIs like the one in Ogden ut. Also many women have problems with sexual nature through chatting/skype/ so on and need a place where they can get recovery not just support. I hear it all the time, IT's not just the men who are having issues with sexual sin addictions... the more people who contact them, I hope the more they will fix this problem/ Thanks

When I found out,. I went to him nice. I wanted to help him. He wanted to change. I wasn't going to be his Mommy and I wanted to trust him again. Of COURSE he is going to be mad, you are takng away his candy. It's an addiction. he will fight and be sorry at the same time. Don't treat him like a kid. and when you say you forgive him, really mean it. I couldn't stand women coming in saying they forgave,. the next week "Oh never mind..." some people love to be the victims too (not saying you are) It's a huge problem and MORE people need to be BLUNT aboiut this topic. I LOVED elder hollands talk this conference. Also, in a women's only support group you are missing out on the best place to be... in the recovery support group. The men are having an amazing real outlook on the problem, while the women sit in a room like R>S lessons. The one we went to was in Ogden ut if your near it. It was just like a A.A meeting you see in the movies " Hi my name is...." "Hi....." it was wonderful, embarrising at first but get rid of that pride for any of you too scared to get in public with your secret,. and get the help they and YOU need I'm glad you don't feel like most women including myself did where you felt NOT good enough. or pretty enough otherwise he wouldn;t have done it. Women who feel that way, don't understand addiction and I know first hand that it can turn into a worse mess on YOUR end if you truly believe it that way

Find a 12 step program where both husband and wife can go in the same room. not one where women go to support men go to recovery. I went five years ago to one where we all met together, it's what got me through it./ I focused on my life. He saw my pain, I started to understand his pain. REad " He did deliver me from bondage" Five years later and some relapses later we are STRONGER than ever. My adivice is GET to those 12 steps ASAP.

Awesome!! I was about to give him this same advice. My friend plays all kinds of games (A lot worse than the ones you mentioned) however, he was one of the first marines in Iraq back in 03' to this day he can play these games, but if a car back fires.. watch out. My advice- listen to your parents until you have a home of your own :)

p.s Marriage isn't just GOOD all the time. the hard times will hit. YOu have to remember why you fell in love with the person AND COntinue to fall in love MULTIPLE times. THere is a HUGE difference from LUST and LOVE. PEople who want LUST all the time will be getting divorce multiple times when the lust runs out and will never fully be satisfied. I think you are 100% justified in thinking you work at it.

You can bluntly say: "Thanks for your concern, but I am going to keep that personal" unless you need the comfort from a close friend of family member. Don't be surprised if she tries to come back due to bioploar and the kids she left behind (I'm not saying tht in a good way) I honestly think the "D" word is ok in two reasons:1. If there is abuse, 2. IF the person isn't willing to change. There has been emotional infidelity in my marriage, but we take each other back when one is repentant. If the person wasn't willing to change and kept doing it then there is nothing in your power to change them. So in your marriage you did everything you could, she wasn't willing to change, and you can only change yourself. I am sorry for your hardships. Hug those kids everyday!

Hey, your bishop will apprechaite you more for coming in. I have had to go to the bishop not too long ago and honestly I realized they aren't there to judge us, they are ther to help us. Go read " I'm not perfect can I still go to the celestial kindom" and also read "Forgiving ourselve" I highly recommend you to go to the 12 step program the church puts out even if the bishop doesn't mention it. Go to Lds.org and click on family services and you will find it. Just remember you are not a bad guy for having an addiction or weakness. Relapse will find itself, but you are stronger and Godloves you. You are doing the right thing. Satan will try EVERYTHING Rght now to hurt you,. just surround yourself with good people and learn to turn things off when temptation arises. good luck. Hang in there. your not alone

Internet dating nowdays is HUGE, I bet you could and will findsomeomne

I dated an atheist and after HE broke up with me (Thankgoodness) he ended up joining the church ... Had I married him I would've given everything up and I doubt he would've joined. THE BEST ADVICE HERE- YOU MARRY WHO YOU DATE. Amen Amen Amen. Now I have three kids and was able to marry a RM, and need that gospel in my LIFE DAILY.