findingmyway

Mormons on top above most religions..... dont know if its a compliment or not.

Could you be heartbroken ?

Not just pray, but talk to Heavenly Father about it. Theres probably a deeper reason as to why you feel this funk. What happened that led you to this funk ? Are you afraid of something ? You seem very frustrated and miserable. I am sorry to hear that. In addition to Slams suggestions , I would also add service.

Well.... Ive never been to Ireland, so.... you can fit me in the box. Im church material. I promise I'll dress churchy..... I'll even bring the M&Ms. If not , how about EFY cds ? I can also sing them too....

I've actually gone before with my wife, just to play volleyball. It was an honest mistake.... and a lot of the people in this particular singles ward were relatives, and we had a lot of fun. I was trying to justify going to a volleyball game, release some stress. But singles ward is for singles and that I am not..... yet. Again , thanks for all the comments and advice. Very helpful.

Sorry, I am going to go back to suggesting you and your boyfriend kneel and pray sincerely. Theres nothing like the both of you kneeling before God, together (hold hands if you want) and laying your concerns before him. If your boyfriend doesn't want to participate in a prayer.... then what is he willing to do ? Keep trying. I remember my first time kneeling and sincerely praying with my spouse..... Very special and memorable moment. I hope you experience that.

Noooooo!!! Don't leave. Stay strong and positive!

How about "Jesus the Christ" by James E Talmage...... and a bag of M&Ms.... I find it relaxing to eat my big bag of M&Ms while I read. Im not ignorant, but do they have M&Ms in Ireland ?

I remember during my mission , how a guy started talking bad about mormons to us.... I guess the shirt and tie didnt give us away. Once he found out that LDS and Mormons were the same.... He got a little quiet and it got a bit awkward..... Heres your book of Mormon I hope you read and pray about it.

Note to self, do not click on any highlighted "this" ................ Took me way off course!

Well , at least the list is on "when" you do confess right ? Not anyones call here, but I believe Formal Disciplinary action,or Disfellowship, but any one of those is better than the list of what will happen if you dont repent. Any one of those is a way back.... except for the Nothing. Something will happen, and it will be good.

My brother served a mission in Chicago, came home in 2009. He is not a legal U.S citizen. His petition and paperwork has been in processed for a long time. However, the bishop knew, and there is a way for him to serve in the states. I dont think its a serious sin , but like Funky said, it needs immediate attention.

Yes... I play a lil golf, and some disc golf, basketball sounds fun too, unfortunately most of the folks in the ward are not as athletic. Its not just about the sport and being active, its also about the spiritual aspects of it. Being around people with similar standards and interests, not just on Sundays. Singles activities... not the answer, I will leave em alone.... Now I just sound like the creepy old guy lol. I grew up in an island, full of culture, a stake where theres a lot of activities, even stake dances for entire family, a lot celebrations, a lot of food , and people would get together and mingle. Wards would have campouts at the beach, and in an island.... it was beautiful. Now.... Im not whining, but I do miss that. Anyway , I did receive the answer to my question and also the advice I needed. Thank you all.

Welcome. Youd be surprised how much your input is needed here . Theres a lot of discussions and a lot of smart and spiritual folks here. I have learned a lot , and its very very comfortable here. Hope you have a great experience !!!!!

First of all, I hate to see people get abused. I know its not the focus here , but , seems like you have been through a lot that you dont deserve. I have a lot of love for you. Unfortunately, I have never experienced how you feel, so I cant give you the best advice. You do deserve friends and you will make friends, just dont give up and dont look down on yourself because you are nervous or jumpy. Just to clarify , are you going to a singles or family ward ?

I understand. I am not trying to go to singles ward, nor all their activities. Im not trying to be single. Far from it. Although if its just for volleyball, I think you're right though.... enough said. My spirit was right. Keep away. I will try to find other activities that seems more appropriate. Our elders quorum is planning the Chilli Cook off that will happen in OCT :lol:. Its far off, but were excited about that.

This might come back and bite me. I have friends and family who is in Singles ward. They have activities, volleyball, pie night... etc. Now I am 26, consider myself too old to go to singles ward, but they have volleyball, and food..... I am currently married going through a divorce, but I want to be active, participating, rather than staying at home doing nothing. Divorce is on my mind "24/7" and I find being around people helps me. Most of my family is out of state, and a lot of my friends are non members , whose way of having fun is going to the bar or the club. I wish my family ward does activities. I helped my sister host and set up for the YSA pie night last night. I went because she invited me to go and also because she made Tres Leches..... and Im a sucker for it. After helping her and after people started to show up, I laughed and told myself Im not supposed to be here. I got my tres leches, got some other sweets.... and walked out the door :lol:. Tonight YSA was playing volleyball, and I really wanted to go, AND NO, I am not looking for a replacement wife. (I still love my wife and I'm still stuck on her) I grew up playing sports and enjoyed it. I asked my friend who goes to the ward and he didnt think there was a problem. I was just going to go play, have fun, I'll even talk to noone and keep to myself. I chose not to go though. Thought it might seem inappropriate, wasnt sure but better to be safe. I am not looking to "hook up with anyone" or even participate in Singles ward. How wrong would it have been if I had stayed at pie night and talked to people, or had gone to play volleyball ?

My parents gave me some advice before I got married. They said there was a high possibility of divorce if I follow through. Well.... almost 3 years later, and they were right. Respect their advice if its legitimate. Honestly, I made my own choices , and I am happy with it. Ultimately, it is your choice, and no matter what advice you get, you two determine how successful your marriage will be, not your parents or his parents.

Slam..... Nothings wrong with you or your family. Dont let anyone bring you down. Something good happened, and you and your daughter deserve a big Congratulations !!!!! Go celebrate and forget about any negative comments.

Show off :lol:. So what is your secret ?

Keep praying. Also, if you havent yet , kneel and pray with your other half. You and your other half both seem like a wonderful couple. Maybe you two can sit down , write all the goals you have, temporal and spiritual and discuss it as a couple. Marriage..... i suggest to do it when youre ready, not out of obligation. Keep discussing it as a couple. I have suggestions and opinions, but true answers come from your Heavenly Father. Keep drawing closer to him and he will draw closer to you and guide you. Youre anxiety needs to be replaced by peace, and I wish you, and your boyfriend, and the children all the best.

For being lost.... you have some wisdom in honesty, and truthful , and I admire that.

For better or worse :lol: I must have skipped where someone said they have never masterbate. I want him on this post !!!!

And mens classes are ..... well in the other room watching. Great exercises.... could be a bad temptation in my opinion, which may not mean much.

Church is a hospital for sinners. Feel comfortable to know everyone goes to get patched up every Sunday. You made the error of calling yourself unworthy, I dont think you know enough saints. You'll find out how much you fit in. You'd be surprised , but there are people who need you at church, who may need your help. You have the missionaries. Maybe you live close to one of us here !!!!! Now that would be awesome. And dont forget to get kids involved, scouts and young womens activities, or primary activities. Youre awesome .... Best wishes.