sxfritz
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Well, I don't know if it matters, but has anyone noticed how the OP hasn't responded again since posting her original question? Maybe because the first response she got was a correction of her question, rather than a response to what I assume is the OP's main point "how do you handle that feeling of uncertainty" (emphasis added.)
This is the same problem that I have had with this particular section of the forum. She asked a question that springs at least partly from normal human insecurity. How about instead of automatically assuming that she doesn't know the doctrine, how about you answer her question as she posed it? Whatever happens after that happens, but at least you can say that your first response was nothing less than thoughtful and charitable. There are several people who did respond this way, I'm not saying this applies to everyone.
Thank you!! This happens way too often.
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Having taught in the primary - I can see the value in team teaching. I think all teaching in the church should be team teaching - such as visiting teaching, home teaching, missionaries --- etc. ---- even parent teaching children in the home. I think it is foolish to think teaching is not more effective when there is more than one. There should be a minimum of 2 whenever possible. Maybe if we think more than one is not possible - it is because we lack faith.
Perhaps it is specific to the teacher. I, for one, had a terrible time with team teachers in the room. It was generally a mess with no chemistry. I guess we just lacked faith. Personally, I think the kids deserved better and did better with a dedicated teacher.
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The child being a minor, I wouldn't force the visit but I would tell the bishop. The child being an adult, I wouldn't (and didn't).
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I am male, a High Priest, and I taught Primary for six years. Most years, I taught alone. Any time we had two deep, the lessons degraded not improved. I support the presidency monitoring and the doors to have windows, and classes combined when there is low attendance. But to double up for the sake of doubling would be a burden on everyone involved (including the children). Care should be given in select and monitor the teacher - male or female, to judge performance by talking with the parents of the children. This may sound like work, but not nearly as much as finding double teachers when it is hard enough to find one good, willing teacher.
Besides, perpetration of a crime isn't going to happen in the class. A child may be "groomed" in a class but it is up to the parent to monitor the relationship outside of class. They shouldn't be letting their children go off with a single member, in any case other then best friends who already have an established trusted relationship.
Greatest calling ever! I wish I could have stayed in there 20 years.
- prisonchaplain and clwnuke
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I know it isn't helpful to comment and to have NOT done what you describe but I have been planning it. I plan to hike as much of the Appalachian Trail as my body can handle. I've done a bit of reading on it and it is well documented. I'd start in Georgia in early Spring, since it will be warm there and head north.
I have friends (an older couple) that did that type of hike on the west coast. The wife had an injury a few weeks in they stopped for a couple of months but did resume.
I'm hoping to compile good experiences for my fiction writing.
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No doubt, you will be finding as much information against the faith as you will about it. Please consider that the "anti" folks are pretty much anti any church but their own or are LDS who fell away. In other words, take it with a grain of salt. Meet some LDS in your community. You'll find most of us to be normal in every way.
I don't doubt you are being pulled by the Spirit. There are many miracles and stories such as yours. Please continue to follow.
Please as questions here. You will get a diversity of opinions. We're not a bunch of clones.
You can meet the missionaries in other places. In fact, if you are a single male, Sisters generally won't meet with you alone. I was taught at my office. Their schedules are very flexible. You pick the time and place and they'll be there.
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I don't believe others have much of a say in the matter. For the sake of harmony, you should trust her and support her.
I personally would wait on the sealing. I suppose they want to make sure any children are covered under the covenant.
My son did something very similar to your cousin although all in very slow motion and with support from others. They have yet to be sealed (although qualified, at this time).
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I think it telling that your post was virtually ignored by the people who have shared so many discussions with you.
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I noticed you missing just the past few weeks. I have always been intrigued that you were an 'ex' member yet gave some of the best LDS based insight in the discussions.
I personally believe faith is an evolving thing. Although a faithful member of the Church myself, my knowledge and understanding changes all the time. I find that my expanding faith still fits in the framework of the gospel as taught by our modern day prophets. I'm not trying to read between the lines in their teachings - I feel the Spirit confirm to me that what I am learning is in alignment with LDS teachings.
I get frustrated when dealing with hard-line orthodox members who feel they are defending the faith by allowing no thought beyond what they know. I believe our mortal lives restrict our ability to learn as much as it provides unique opportunity to learn what cannot be learned in a spiritual existence. And so I believe we shouldn't discount other people's understandings and faith. We don't need to accept and practice all things, but we should not devalue other faiths because we don't understand them. I think it is this lack of tolerance, by many, that pushes members out of the Church.
And so Bini, I do not mourn for you but am glad for your journey. I hope it leads you back to accepting a need for ordinances and covenants (the principle purpose of the Church) but, in the mean time, learn and grow, and exercise faith.
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I'm siding with Vort on this. I will also say that you (the two of you) have made this a focus of your relationship, or at least too much of a focus. I'm reading your description and thinking you both are addicted to porn. He watching it and you curing it. It is almost as if he is using it to manipulate you. The focus appears to be at an unhealthy level.
There are other guys; better men. Let this one go and find a healthy relationship.
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This raised a flag...
Seems like you believe that this current Bishop is a fake Bishop and is not inspired by God.
Inspired by God or not, bishops are still people with filters created by a lifetime of history. There are bad bishops. I've had them. They are called by God, but they may not listen or have some area of personal growth they need to go through themselves. We don't have a doctrine of infallibility.
I would encourage my young sister to continue to talk to the bishop to help him understand.
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Is it impossible that someone can be entirely temple worthy but just unable, for whatever reason, to come to church?
This has for the past couple of years been the ONLY thing that has kept me from the temple.
It is entirely up to your bishop and stake president. They do give recommends to people who cannot attend church. If you share with them your specifics, they may in fact feel justified in issuing a recommend. Don't hold yourself back from asking.
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I think the key purpose of the policy change is the "not legally defensible"; meaning it costs too much to keep fighting lawsuits. I think the Church benefits by associating with an organization no longer being sued, versus going it alone and bearing the brunt of the force certain to be perpetrated by political action groups.
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Dear Brs & Sis's,
I am considering vacationing in Scotland, my ancestral home. I am a North American. I could rent a car. I have never driven on the other side of the road. Any thoughts? Have any of you attempted this? How scary was it?
I'v done it in several countries. It becomes natural and not worrisome. I generally had issues pulling in and out of parking lots so I learned to take extra caution and go slower when making those turns. I never found myself driving on the wrong side of the road and getting in harms way. I did find my windshield wipers went on whenever I made a turn. The turn signal controls are opposite too.
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It is okay to give the bishopric member information they may need to consider the circumstance and then ask for a week for them to reconsider. I've sat in the Bishopric meeting enough times (years) to know how callings are assigned and, although the Spirit does give a confirmation that a calling should be extended to you, it is accepted by the bishopric that they do so with limited insight into the selection and any discussion with you is of value in giving further consideration. The Spirit may have only been telling them they needed to talk to you about the calling and not necessarily that you are the only one for it.
Seen it many times.
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Hey everyone,
Just wondering if anyone has ever lost their temple recommend over too much diet coke. A fellow member told me I drink too much diet coke. I probably drink about 3 or 4 cans a day because I really really like the way it tastes (and no decaf coke does not do it for me). I admit I also like the way it wakes me up. I would give it up for The Lord or if there is any real significance to drinking lots of diet coke but I would not give it up if it is just culturally prohibited or even if it is merely unhealthy. What do you think?
You should give it up for you.
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The Folk Prophet, and everyone, my objective here is to urge others to disavow past teachings and move forward with the Church. Past teachings regarding black people have been immeasurably harmful to the Church.
I think we have moved on. You appear to be the one stuck.
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Well... the bishop's response... he called my husband to the Young Men's Presidency. Ugh.
I can relate to that. They made me YM Pres when I moved into a small branch and I had boys about that age. Thing was I was never a Scout and didn't grow up on the Church. It took me months to figure out the YM program IS the Boy Scouts. I wondered why some of the kids showed up with shirts on. I planned an activity where I took the kids to a car dealer to learn about sales, after arranging an after hour tour at the dealership. The salesman brought his son in full uniform and looked at my "Scouts" all dressed in street rags. I was so embarrassed. The night didn't go well. I really remember nothing more than the moment I saw his son fully dressed with a big sash full of badges.
They really had no business putting me in that calling - with NO training - except that I was a worth male priesthood holder. I did my best for a year or so and got out of Dodge.
If you care about Scouts, move your kids to a program that works.
My ward now is great. I am a Webelos assistant. It is still hard for me to care about Scouts (having no background) but I know an love the kids and want to do the best for them.
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My classes are never like that. I don't recall it ever being so. I did a six year stint in Primary, which I loved, and dreaded going back to HP but it is painful only because the discussion part is too light and it drags the meeting on. I might like a bit of levity in the meeting. I'm not going to hope for it, as I don't want to be the next leader.
Re-reading my post, I hope I didn't confuse by using saying "light" and "levity" in adjoining sentences. I meant to say there is not enough discussion and that leads to a rather somber and boring meeting.
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I did my self-evaluation just yesterday - mid-year reviews. It is a painful exercise and I would echo the comments above. Fact is, it is a necessary evil. As a manager (for many years now), I have reviewed dozens of other self-evaluations. I think it important to be as positive and self-promoting as possible. Nobody else is going to toot your horn for you. Don't worry about the 'no room to grow' idea. The room to grow is a promotion. You need to be at the next level "before" you get promoted, so best to try and show you are there now.
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Hello! I am thinking about creating an online venue of discussion for ward members. Often the classes go by without getting to everyone who wanted to speak, and there are people who feel hesitant about sharing their questions/concerns in public.
So I would like to ask for your recommendations/suggestions about sites and tools that may allow a sort of message board/discussion forum that I can create for my ward. A couple things that I am looking for are as follows:
1. Must guarantee privacy so only ward members can access
2. Must allow an option for users to be anonymous
3. Need the option to appoint moderators
4. Better to be simple and easy-to-use than sophiscated
5. Mobile platform
Any help is much appreciated!! Thank you.
Our Stake President specifically asked that we don't do this. He expressed that past experiences have proven the discussions lead away from the Spirit.
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President Hinckley taught from an essay from Ralph Waldo Emerson:
http://grammar.about.com/od/classicessays/a/emersongifts.htm
In a conference talk, he boiled it down to this - "Presents are not gifts but apologies for gifts not given".
It on on that principle that I chose what I select as "presents".
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I see it more as a response to ISIS. We need to remember to not treat all Muslims as wanting to murder us and they...need to stop murdering us.
It applies to all faiths of course. President O has used the occasion to lecture Christians on the past. It is because we tend to repeat history.
Do you ever worry you won't make it to the Celestial Kingdom?
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I don't worry. I envision the goal. I plan for the goal. I know I fall short, but I appreciate the promise of he atonement. I don't think of it as a safety net, but instead know that I am cared for and the plan is for my shortfalls to be made up - even if it doesn't mean making the Celestial Kingdom. Until then, I study my science and practice my math because, yes, there will be work in heaven. (see Chapter 16 of Wind of Fire - basically the principle of the book). :)