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I don't know about the rich* but I do know that I'm paying way more than my fair share! *didn't watch the video so I don't get riled up

Pale - Is this it? http://rightwingnews.com/top-news/must-see-urgent-video-backyard-map-shows-22-terrorist-training-camps-u-s-obama-refuses-act/

Thanks for the responses! We hadn't thought of a couple of those ideas so I'll pass those on. :)

A couple things about the sacrament - it's meant to be a renewal of covenants and an indication that you're going to try to not repeat the same mistakes as the previous week. It's also so you'll have the Spirit with you. From what you describe, your wife isn't interested in either of the above, so to me it's more of a mockery before God that she's taking it. As far as teaching - not Primary kids or anyone else. Doctrine and Covenants 42:14 And the Spirit shall be given unto you by the prayer of faith; and if ye receive not the Spirit ye shall not teach.

So my in-laws 50th is coming up and we want to do something for this event but what? I've offered them a few ideas but would love to know what you've seen/heard of and/or what you'd appreciate. Oh, and be aware that all kids live in different states and an 'inexpensive' route would go over better.

Getting enough sleep and eating real food (God made not man made - ie does it grow?) can make more of a difference in keeping weight down than exercise does so I'd start there if you're not doing that already.

No, what's jarring is that you actually think this! Wow!

I'm quiet on the topic because I don't want to give this garbage any more attention than it has unfortunately already gotten.

First - You're an adult so it's none of their business. Just state that unfortunately you won't be able to attend. Second - Go to whatever else you can so they don't feel like it's them. Third - Set your intention that they'll be understanding and let it go (ie hope for the best). Fourth - Offer to watch the kids so the other siblings can be a part of it. Fifth - Just as they gave you advance notice, give the same to them so they're not caught off guard.

What is the advantage? Well, what's the advantage of having gps/maps, road signs and traffic laws? Perhaps it's to help you navigate your way towards your destination and get you there in the safest way possible. If we didn't have these things, would we be better off (as individuals as well as a society)? I think not!

Jimmi - fwiw - my husband would *love* to hear about the progress of someone that he introduced the Gospel to no matter how many years it's been and there's nothing wrong with expressing gratitude to the person/s as well as G-d.

Looking at it another way may help - if a person is working on their family history and see that ordinances need to take place, the kids would be sealed to the biological parents, wouldn't they? So why would it be different for the living??? Just my 2c and others are free to chime in with other info that might make my 2c not worth anything at all. :)

You guys* are awesome! Thanks so much! *includes gals as well :)

Someone I know is taking a training course for work where they're learning to think outside the box. One of the questions they were asked about was if Jesus was the only one conceived by immaculate conception. It was brought up that Catholics believe that Mary was also conceived this way??? I've never heard of this and wonder if any of you have. Another idea that was brought up was that some believe that Eve wasn't Adam's first wife. Lilleth (?) was but was cast out. Again never heard of this but it's got my friend curious so thought I'd ask about it here.

Happy - Since he just keeps shutting you down, write a letter. That way you speak your peace and can take your time doing so and put things in a way that is fair to both of you.

Perhaps a woman who needs a listening ear! I do see your point though but there's a difference between spreading this info like wildfire and just needing some sympathy and a shoulder to cry on.

Night - for what it's worth - if you have a 'desperate vibe' that would be a turn off and work against you. I don't know you so this is for others that might read this just as much as it is for you.

Not all. Just needed to say that because I get really tired of being put in the same 'love babies' box and people perpetuating the idea that every woman belongs in it. As for the op - you've gotten great feedback already.

Doesn't every area have a PFM (physical facilities manager - a paid position)? I know we do. They're the ones who make sure the building is decent and things working properly. I'm pretty sure a High Councillor is also supposed to oversee this in each stake. The bishops are there to communicate needs and make sure the place gets cleaned regularly. It's puzzling to me what some of you apparently put up with (needlessly imo since there are avenues you can use to address it).

Since it's time to lawyer up - get the best one you can possibly afford. It makes a huge difference! Sorry things have gone this way.

Except for the part that asks if you attend your Priesthood meetings. This came up in my renewal interview just a few months ago.

Don't discount your voice! Someone obviously needs to speak up so why not you?! Honestly, I've taken matters into my own hands before (and am about to again). I also brought up an issue with the ward council (mentioned the problem, offered a solution as well as my efforts to execute). Things haven't necessarily been followed (I didn't expect perfection but now they know someone's paying attention) but at least I did something and am no longer just sitting there being bothered. The environment is important and has an impact on reverence and the ability to focus on learning (it's even mentioned in Teaching, No Greater Call) so speak up and act (type up some signs!) until others get a clue. You never know how many others have been thinking the same thing and would appreciate your voice for change. Consider it anonymous service! :)

True but sometimes the longer you postpone it, the easier to forego it. (Just putting that out there)

Yes, I've met in a building with 4 wards (stake center as well so scheduling was extra tight) but we managed. Honestly, it sounds as though it's high time people be reminded that it's the *Lord's House* and they should treat it as such. They also need to be reminded about the commandment not to steal (not returning things is essentially stealing). As far as cleaning up afterwards - the old adage to leave things better than you found them could be posted on every door. I might chime in with more later but you get the idea.

I can understand why a 17 yo convert may need more time to wrap their head around the idea (and thus not go at 18) but yes, the obligation is the same for all able-bodied men (as far as I know anyway). It is not uncommon for young men at this age to have reservations (whether convert or not) so I would suggest he talk to his bishop about it. Furthermore, maybe he was prompted to join the Church sooner rather than later so he would have the chance to serve. You never know! Also, has he gotten his Patriarchal Blessing? That could help with the decision as well. Just a thought.