TheValesExult Posted September 4, 2008 Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 I always wonder what exactly to type in a introduction on a web forum, so if my thoughts seem random you'll know why. I'm a convert to the church of nearly four years. My main reason for joining this forum is to aid in overcoming an addiction. I grew up in an environment where chastity was mentioned next to never. It was never taught to me, and while I mention this I only do so to illustrate that many of the tools and teachings found in the church were new to me. As you have probably guessed, my addiction is to pornography, and I feel ashamed even mentioning it. My desires are righteous, but as a wiser person than I once said, "Good intentions paved the road to Hell." I want to be more than a man in desire only, to truly be a man of Christ with all the blessings commensurate with diligent, faithful living. Why I cannot carry through with these thoughts, I do not know, but I'll readily make use of good help, as the Lord gives. These snares must be overcome, and they will be... somehow. I realized today, that my mindset has always been that "I can overcome this, my will alone is strong enough." This is not in harmony with divine law; my pride must be removed and only One can grant this unto me. Anyway, that's probably a long enough intro. post. lol Take care all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr T Posted September 4, 2008 Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 Welcome to this site Vales :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie Posted September 4, 2008 Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 Welcome! Good luck in overcoming your weakness. I'm sure there will be many on this site that can offer advise. I can offer prayers!! :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheValesExult Posted September 4, 2008 Author Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 Thank you both for your kind words. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RainofGold Posted September 4, 2008 Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 Thevalesexault. Your not alone in this, you have a big support group here with us. We can offer advice, opinions, prayers or just a place for you to come and vent.... Welcome. Rain Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pam Posted September 4, 2008 Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 Welcome to the site. As RainofGold said....you are not alone in this. Many have come to this site with the same addiction and have great support. I hope you find it here as well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Truegrits Posted September 4, 2008 Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 Welcome, TheValesExult! :)As has been stated, you are not alone in your addiction. Hopefully, prayerfully, you will overcome this problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Palerider Posted September 4, 2008 Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 welcome to the site and good luck to you....:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
countrygirl66 Posted September 4, 2008 Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 welcome to the site I hope you like it here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hemidakota Posted September 4, 2008 Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 I always wonder what exactly to type in a introduction on a web forum, so if my thoughts seem random you'll know why. I'm a convert to the church of nearly four years. My main reason for joining this forum is to aid in overcoming an addiction. I grew up in an environment where chastity was mentioned next to never. It was never taught to me, and while I mention this I only do so to illustrate that many of the tools and teachings found in the church were new to me. As you have probably guessed, my addiction is to pornography, and I feel ashamed even mentioning it. My desires are righteous, but as a wiser person than I once said, "Good intentions paved the road to Hell." I want to be more than a man in desire only, to truly be a man of Christ with all the blessings commensurate with diligent, faithful living. Why I cannot carry through with these thoughts, I do not know, but I'll readily make use of good help, as the Lord gives. These snares must be overcome, and they will be... somehow. I realized today, that my mindset has always been that "I can overcome this, my will alone is strong enough." This is not in harmony with divine law; my pride must be removed and only One can grant this unto me. Anyway, that's probably a long enough intro. post. lol Take care all.What a wonderful desire....welcome to the forum and hopefully we can all worked to together to seek the same. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Misshalfway Posted September 4, 2008 Report Share Posted September 4, 2008 Hi. Welcome to the site. These are tough problems. I am glad that you are realizing that will power doesn't/can't overcome this problem. Have you thought about working a recovery program or joining an LDS 12 stepper? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maya Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 Hi and welcome, I hope this site can help you to overcome the difficulties. I know you can! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skalenfehl Posted September 7, 2008 Report Share Posted September 7, 2008 Hello and welcome! I know you'll find much support here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest tomk Posted September 7, 2008 Report Share Posted September 7, 2008 I always wonder what exactly to type in a introduction on a web forum, so if my thoughts seem random you'll know why. I'm a convert to the church of nearly four years. My main reason for joining this forum is to aid in overcoming an addiction. I grew up in an environment where chastity was mentioned next to never. It was never taught to me, and while I mention this I only do so to illustrate that many of the tools and teachings found in the church were new to me. As you have probably guessed, my addiction is to pornography, and I feel ashamed even mentioning it. My desires are righteous, but as a wiser person than I once said, "Good intentions paved the road to Hell." I want to be more than a man in desire only, to truly be a man of Christ with all the blessings commensurate with diligent, faithful living. Why I cannot carry through with these thoughts, I do not know, but I'll readily make use of good help, as the Lord gives. These snares must be overcome, and they will be... somehow. I realized today, that my mindset has always been that "I can overcome this, my will alone is strong enough." This is not in harmony with divine law; my pride must be removed and only One can grant this unto me. Anyway, that's probably a long enough intro. post. lol Take care all. Welcome to the forums.We're all fallen mortals here. All in need of a Savior! We only differ in what ails us!!I have also struggled with masturbation and pornography, for over 20 years. The only thing that has gradually brought me sanity and healing has been my Lord, Jesus Christ. We must enter into that covenant relationship with Him, so he can heal us.There are TONS of resources online. One 12 step program that I have been involved in for several years now is:Heart t' Heart :: IndexThere need not be any shame in struggling with pornography or any other addiction. We are here to encounter and overcome these things. The only shame would be if you never found your Savior and began to receive His healing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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