If what you shared with us is true ....my advice to you is ....go directly to your Bishop and share with him the things you mentioned here. Your Bishop and that Councilor will or should at some point get a report about your sessions.
I skated on speed skates and was able to skate backwards. My wife was a better short track speed skater than I was. I too listened and danced to Disco music. I have been a member of the church all my life and when I was 14-15 yrs old I was kicked out of the our Scout troop. I didn't care nor did I miss it. Lol
Mirkwood ..... Sorry to hear about this. I have a son in law who is a Deputy for the County and two neighbors, one a city Officer here where I live and another one is a Highway Patrolman. Praying for you and all officers.
For us and having 4 kids in school we got to a point with all the fundraisers going on .....we asked if we could just donate a sum of money. When you have kids in Marching band sometimes the fundraisers are endless.
My point here ....what if the parents don't have the sense or common sense to think it's an issue .....I can take you to some areas in our country where they have no knowledge or understanding about or what depression is
Start by seeing your Bishop and asking him if there is LDS Counciling in the area. They can give you professional help along with teaching Gospel Principles.