Friend

Hi, 
it took me so long to re-find this thread. My partner and I are going to go for a civil wedding in November and whenever I am able to we are going to be sealed together. 

I became a member when I was 11 and I was the only member in my family, I've always been in and out of going to church. When I went to college I attended church regularly but I still wasn't really keen and I started to date someone I met at church and I fell pregnant with my son, we got married and within 18 months we were divorced. I never went back to church, last October I met my fiance on a dating app for LDS, I wasn't really honest with him about my inactivity in the church because I was worried he wouldn't want to be with me. I misled him into thinking I had a temple recommend, I feel really bad about it and I want to marry him. Some of my friends say he will still want to marry me now and when I am ready to be married in the temple we can do that then, but they aren't members and I don't think they understand. If you were engaged and thought you were going to be married in the temple would you be willing to be married and later be married at the temple? Also, I don't go to church at the moment but I would like to go again and I want to marry my fiance in the temple but it's not been a good time for me to go to church. What do you think I should do? And, I kind of fabricated that my son was conceived before I was married, I just didn't want him to judge me. Do you think I have to tell him? 

Hi, 
it took me so long to re-find this thread. My partner and I are going to go for a civil wedding in November and whenever I am able to we are going to be sealed together. 

Hi, 
it took me so long to re-find this thread. My partner and I are going to go for a civil wedding in November and whenever I am able to we are going to be sealed together. 

Hi, 
it took me so long to re-find this thread. My partner and I are going to go for a civil wedding in November and whenever I am able to we are going to be sealed together. 

It isn't that easy as to just get over it 

Yes you're right I have to be truthful and see what happens 

Yes you're right I have to be truthful and see what happens 

Yes you're right I have to be truthful and see what happens 

Yes you're right I have to be truthful and see what happens 

I should have mentioned Friend is actually my last name 

You have come to a great place 😊

Hi Friend!

Howdy!

Welcome!

Hi, 
I'm a member from when I was 11 but I never really grew my testimony but I have gone to church on and off for a while, but off for the last few years. I have a 4 year old son and I work in cyber security. It's nice to meet you.