Not having read any posts other than the OP....... There are a lot of factors that go into this situation. Generally speaking, I agree with you, Pale: enough is enough. However, there are two sisters in my ward -- they are SAHMs to three and four kids each -- that I can think of (without trying) who love serving in Primary and actually request it. Then there's me. By mid-October last year, I asked my bishopric counselor for a release from Nursery. I'd been in since the beginning of the year, and I just couldn't do it anymore. I think both types are needed. People who love Primary are needed, because heaven knows not everyone does. But those of us who don't can still grow from it and bless others in the process as well. My strengths just aren't with kids. They're with teenagers and adults. And my strengths are needed, too. In my ward, we don't have the luxury of not calling the SAHMs into Primary. At 33 years old, I'm older than more than half of the adults in my ward. My ward has nine callings dedicated just to the Nursery. And we only have six youth-aged girls in the ward. Sometimes I wish the bishopric would call people based on their own self-assessed strengths and interests. I think a lot of programs would be stronger, and people happier, if that were the case.