omegaseamaster75

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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from mdfxdb in Newlywed Considering Dvorce   
    I will grant that the OP does not paint a pretty picture of her spouse.  Again we are only hearing one side of the story. the Husband is a monster and the OP is the poor victim? 
    It takes 2 to tango.
    How long did the OP date this guy before marriage? if you date long enough you get to know who a person is. We are talking about adults here right? No one forced her to marry this guy. So one can assume that due diligence was taken on her part to make sure that this was someone she wanted to spend eternity with.  For example, came from a good family, was educated, had a good job with which to support his family, was religious not just a go to sacrament and then hang out in the halls mormon. etc. etc.
    how much effort is the OP putting into the relationship? We only hear about the terrible stuff her husband is doing.
     
     
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Midwest LDS in Husband had one time affair   
    Put me on the list for a lewd one
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from mdfxdb in Husband had one time affair   
    It depends, he needs to start by having a conversation with the Bishop. As an endowed member things will not be so easy for him since he knows better.  This isn't to say he will be excommunicated a lot of things go into that decision.  If he is it's not the end of the world.
    Call your Bishop, he can also recommend LDS family services, while you claim that you can't pay for counseling I think that if you prioritize correctly you will find that you can afford it. If you really can't afford it the Bishop will supplement through fast offerings. Why would you bring your family into this? Your husband is your family don't compound the injury by bring in other people into it that don't need to know.
    See your Bishop, See a MFT. It will take time and effort to come through this.
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Just_A_Guy in Husband had one time affair   
    It depends, he needs to start by having a conversation with the Bishop. As an endowed member things will not be so easy for him since he knows better.  This isn't to say he will be excommunicated a lot of things go into that decision.  If he is it's not the end of the world.
    Call your Bishop, he can also recommend LDS family services, while you claim that you can't pay for counseling I think that if you prioritize correctly you will find that you can afford it. If you really can't afford it the Bishop will supplement through fast offerings. Why would you bring your family into this? Your husband is your family don't compound the injury by bring in other people into it that don't need to know.
    See your Bishop, See a MFT. It will take time and effort to come through this.
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from mrmarklin in Am I an extremist?   
    You need to worry about your own spiritual journey and not be concerned with what others think.
    What's the "D" word? What's the "H" word? I'm going to assume damn and hell? Both words are are found in the scriptures.
    How could you know how many were in each movie respectively? Does someone count them?
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from anatess2 in Are differences in IQ a reflection of pre-mortal attainment?   
    It's a cool statement and may even be true but shouldn't be put forward as doctrinal or an absolute truth because it is not. It is one mans opinion.
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    omegaseamaster75 reacted to Just_A_Guy in Help. I don’t know what to think or what to do!   
    1.  He absolutely needs to stop it.  Now.
    2.  He needs therapeutic intervention.  Now.
    3.  You need to talk to competent legal counsel in your jurisdiction about whether your husband’s actions, as he has described them to you, meet the legal definition for “abuse” or “neglect” in your state and, if so, what your legal reporting requirements are.  Child protective services *may* need to get involved.  
    4.  I wouldn’t be running for the divorce court yet; but you are right that this is a Big Deal.  Don’t do anything rash—but DO take this seriously.
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    omegaseamaster75 reacted to LePeel in Are differences in IQ a reflection of pre-mortal attainment?   
    There is no mention in the scriptures, ancient or modern, that the Holy Ghost will receive a body. As for him being a god, it really depends on how we're defining "god."
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Grunt in Are differences in IQ a reflection of pre-mortal attainment?   
    This is pure speculation, aside from Jesus we don't really know how our interactions in the premortal life effects who or what we are in this life. (exception we didn't side with Satan)
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Vort in Are differences in IQ a reflection of pre-mortal attainment?   
    This is pure speculation, aside from Jesus we don't really know how our interactions in the premortal life effects who or what we are in this life. (exception we didn't side with Satan)
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    omegaseamaster75 reacted to MarginOfError in No really, vaccines good things, anti-vac is growing more and more deadly.   
    Primarily, it is transmitted through sexual contact, though not exclusively. It is not the sole cause of cervical cancer.
    However, considering that less than 5% of Americans wait until marriage to have sexual intercourse - even fewer to have sexual contact - and that over 60% of humans carry at least one strain of HPV, it strikes me as somewhat futile to attempt to protect our daughters by preaching abstinence.
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Sunday21 in Married members with high traveling jobs (50% or more travel)   
    Yes I would tell my wife who was going on the trip. Yes I would go on the trip (if I don't go I get fired right?). Who cares how long it's for.  Start talking about your wife and kids, the flirty stuff should stop. 
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from mdfxdb in Instagram Account Shares NASTY Photos of Mormon Missionary Meals   
    Spitting out food that someone paid for and worked for is offensive, you don't have to have seconds but you should be polite.
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    omegaseamaster75 reacted to Just_A_Guy in Instagram Account Shares NASTY Photos of Mormon Missionary Meals   
    How horrible.  Many of the members who feed missionaries, are giving them the very best they can afford and (in my experience serving in Brazil) sometimes feed the missionaries better than they feed their own children.  So what if it’s different than what these elders are used to? 
    What clueless, spoiled, first-world ingrates we seem to be sending into the mission field these days . . .
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Bad Karma in do you guys think she's trying to avoid me?   
    This is not good advice.
    However, next time you see her you should approach her and say hello, it will then be very clear if she is avoiding you or not. Keep in mind that the times you have seen her she has been with her boyfriend so yeah she probably is avoiding you.
    Don't do this, it's a good way to get punched in the nose. Again bad advice.
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    omegaseamaster75 reacted to anatess2 in But it sure feels like it.   
    Being Foyerites (or playing with smartphones) when there are problems in the quorum disqualifies you from being one of the best men.  We were just talking about weak men in that other thread.  Being a foyerite in the face of problems is something a weak man would do.
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Backroads in Socialized medicine   
    I don't know what insurance plan you have and I am sorry that you are struggling with this it is terrible. 
    I do know this, pre Obama care I had affordable insurance with low deductibles and high levels of coverage. I don't want to make this a political discussion however post Obama care my insurance is slightly better that catastrophic insurance, high deductibles brutally high, low coverage % by the insurer and I have the pleasure of paying more for it.  I feel your pain. 
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Just_A_Guy in Socialized medicine   
    HAve you ever been to the DMV?
    When has the government successfully run anything?
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Backroads in Thoughts on babyfeeding in the church   
    I agree, and this becomes a teaching moment for the parents. 
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Backroads in Thoughts on babyfeeding in the church   
    Depending on the situation yes. 
    You quoted Dallin H Oaks 
    I have big problems with his statement, but I don't view it as relevant to this discussion.  I will say this, Breastfeeding is not sexual. I read your little diatribe about how it is in the world of porn etc. etc. If our youth, husbands, and other men are having sexual thoughts when they see a woman breast feeding they should have a discussion with their bishop, at a minimum take a hard look in the mirror and get a grip on reality.  
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Backroads in Thoughts on babyfeeding in the church   
    Nothing is wrong with it, until it clouds our judgement.  Breastfeeding is a great example. I agree with our leaders that there needs to be a level of modesty surrounding what we do and how we behave and dress.  I also think that there are some situations where the rules surrounding modesty need to be adjusted Breastfeeding is one of them.
     
     
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Backroads in Thoughts on babyfeeding in the church   
    No one should have an issue with either one of these examples.  We need to not look at everything though our puritanical glasses.
    An exposed breast in not the end of the world and breast feeding is not sexual. I somehow managed to serve a mission in another country where women frequently exposed themselves to breastfeed and I managed to make it through unscathed.
     
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    omegaseamaster75 reacted to mrmarklin in Giving up on marriage   
    Dump this choking loser...You can obviously do much betterIMHO.
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from Vort in Socialized medicine   
    HAve you ever been to the DMV?
    When has the government successfully run anything?
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    omegaseamaster75 got a reaction from mrmarklin in Socialized medicine   
    HAve you ever been to the DMV?
    When has the government successfully run anything?