my two cents

@Sunday21 - The Church doesn't want dirty money. They don't want tithing on lotto winnings either.

@green1 - Wash a bunch of fruit and veggies all at the same time* and put in a bowl where you can see it often. You could also make a decision to eat 2 or 3 fruits or veggies at every meal or that's what you have for snacks. With so much variety, you can really mix it up so you're not bored with what you're eating. Planning a weeks worth of meals ahead of time might also help increase your intake. *though not strawberries and maybe some others that should only be washed right before eating - google it

@Sunday21 - You don't have to download the program any more. People can also index using ipads and tablets now. There are a lot of great new features and they're still tweaking things. Check it out!

@mt_mck7 - You could also do scripture quotes and/or hymn lyrics: "be strong and of a good courage" "let your light so shine" "hold to the rod" "scatter sunshine" "count your many blessings" etc, etc, etc

Focus on the things you CAN do and not on the things you can't! Remember that thoughts are powerful and whatever you focus on grows. You are strong enough for this so just do what you can little by little, day by day. {hugs}

"praying for you" "you are awesome" "so proud of you" if he's in a foreign speaking mission - just say these (and what you have been) in that language (use google)

New idea - get together for an indexing party! Two birds, one stone.

Sorry @Iggy but @Sunday21 is right. From the chi 7.4.2: When assigning home teachers, leaders give highest priority to new members, less-active members who may be the most receptive, and others who have the greatest need for home teachers, such as single parents, widows, and widowers. I'm also not a fan of this and think there's got to be a way for those doing the work to not be the ones who are ignored (probably could word this better but you know what I mean).

Well, maybe the members in your area will be more responsive than they are in mine. I never imagined I'd have to go to the lengths that I have to get even a smidgen of support. It makes me really feel for the Brethren with how many Saints ignore their pleas. Let me know if you'd like ideas, etc.

Ward beggar.

There's more than one way to ht/vt. ~ My husband sends a letter every month to one of his people (inactive, divorced...). ~ Maybe you can let them know that you're great at fixing cars if theirs ever breaks down (or maybe you have handyman skills...). ~ Maybe you can support them in their callings (I've actually told my vt that's what I'd prefer over a visit cause that would mean more - they still don't do it though ). So join the choir if you have to or offer to set up/take down after a RS activity. ~ Maybe promise to keep a visit to 20-30 minutes tops (I had one that stayed for 2+ hours). ~ Maybe they need to be reassured that you won't bring your wandering kids over (had that happen, too). ~ Maybe you need to tell them you won't ask any nosy/probing questions (been there and don't like it). chi 7.4.1 - Where possible, home teachers visit members in their homes at least monthly. Home teachers may also find other meaningful ways to watch over and strengthen the families they are assigned. For example, they may render service to the families or contact family members by mail or telephone.

@Gazing at essence - First, welcome to the forum. I can see where you're coming from and applaud your strength of character and commitment to live the law of chastity despite the temptation to do otherwise. I agree with eddified about knowing how long ago the issues occurred and would add to find out about stds just in case. One thing to keep in mind is that since she's been through the repentance process, she may have a deeper understanding and appreciation for the atonement which is a plus and something you could learn from (not condoning or advocating sinning). I have a sister that had two kids from a long-term but too early relationship. My brother-in-law saw that she was a good catch though and they've had a strong marriage and built a wonderful life together. Oh - you mentioned your dad and grandpa's opinion on the matter. I know you need a sounding board but please don't share her transgressions with others (at least not people that she may eventually call family) unless you have her ok to do so.

Thank you for saying that. This point is something I realized some years ago but is never mentioned but important to know.

Happy for you and glad you're here! Keep us posted on your progress.

A friend lent me her copy and I liked it enough to buy my own. Maybe ask around to see if someone in your area has it that you can borrow from and decide for yourself. (fwiw - I found it easier to read it by topic (index) instead of straight through)

Welcome to the forum! I would say that you're being given 'hints' and for a reason. I will say though that even in the Mormon church as you call it, congregations are just full of people - imperfect people - just doing their best so focus on the doctrine and how you feel as you learn. Again, welcome - glad to have you here.

Well, here's May 2006 - https://www.lds.org/ensign/2006/05/conference-summary-for-the-176th-annual-general-conference?lang=eng I'll let you check for others yourself.

Go to this link https://www.lds.org/ensign/2000?lang=eng and scroll down to other issues and click on the year you're interested in and the May/November editions then look at the conference summary where the music is listed. Below is the one for May 2007. https://www.lds.org/ensign/2007/05/conference-summary-for-the-177th-annual-general-conference?lang=eng

What have you appreciated being done for you, what do you wish someone had thought of, what have you done for others or heard of someone doing? Big or small I'd love to hear it! Thanks!

What have you appreciated being done for you, what do you wish someone had thought of, what have you done for others or heard of someone doing? Big or small I'd love to hear it! Thanks!

For it to feel more meaningful, include some of the Faith in God requirements in your planning*. It seems to get lost too often with the boys (and sometimes the girls) but the Church has it for a reason. As far as the separate night/two-deep issue - rotate the parents to help you and/or get welfare recipients to cover the babysitting. No one should have to get a sitter just to magnify a calling. *if I had a son in scouts - I would expect this as a parent

I certainly hope not - Just heard Elder Oaks speak last Sunday saying that tats are "still graffiti on your personal temple".

Memorize The Living Christ Memorize uplifting poetry

Read the SS and RS lessons.

Also, use rootsmapper and pedigree pie to help you identify places in your family tree that need standardizing. You can also play geneopardy and see what you know about your ancestors.