Texan
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4 hours ago, GaleG said:
Thank you Vort,
I will try to improve the way I am expressing. So if I am understanding your view, you
believe temple marriage did occur in Book of Mormon times and in the early New
Testament church?Gale
As a long-time periodic (but very cordial and I hope respectful) investigator of the Church, I've often wondered the very same thing. The Book of Mormon has always been presented to me as containing the fulness of the Gospel, but from my reading it seems to omit things that form the very centerpiece of today's Church.
This is not a belligerent question or an attack. I'm genuinely interested in the question that @GaleG asked, and to be honest I have heard significantly different answers over the years. For a while I took the view that the Book of Mormon radiated general teachings that have been instantiated or particularized in today's Church, perhaps even in a form that Book of Mormon people would not recognize, and that today's ordinances are simply specific implementations of more general principles that the Book of Mormon enshrined.
But I've moved away from that view and am now thinking that the Book of Mormon omits many topics that were surely commonplace in ancient times, sacred or not, and that while those omissions can lead to speculation, they don't prove much. Besides, I was always taught that Heavenly Father became God by obedience to everlasting Gospel ordinances, which makes me suspect those ordinances are pretty rigid things.
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3 hours ago, The Folk Prophet said:
This isn't accurate, per se. One side claims they know the truth because they have it figured out right. The other side claims that God has revealed truth to them. That is not apples to apples.
I am unaware of any major Christian denomination that "claims they know the truth because they have it figured out right." This is a terrible mischaracterization. Every Christian church I'm familiar with has based itself on truth that God has revealed through the Scriptures, through the prophets, and most importantly through Jesus Christ. To claim otherwise shows a profound misunderstanding of how other Christian churches view themselves.
- Maureen and Midwest LDS
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3 hours ago, The Folk Prophet said:
This isn't hypocrisy. If I openly state that I think something is wrong but also openly admit that I do it anyway that isn't hypocrisy. In order for it to be hypocrisy I have to pretend to others I don't do it. There has to be a lie in there.
So if I have a long history of declaring all tattoos evil and morally wrong, but I wear a short-sleeved shirt that openly reveals the tattoos I got yesterday, then I'm not a hypocrite because I'm not pretending anything?
Some definitions of "hypocrisy" merely require the hypocrite to act in a way that contradicts the principles that the hypocrite claims to follow. There is no requirement that these acts be done in secret, or that the hypocrite pretend he doesn't do them. In fact, when Jesus describes the Pharisees as hypocrites, he explicitly says, "Everything they do is done for people to see" (Matthew 23:5). There has to be a contradiction in there. The lie is optional.
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1 hour ago, Mores said:
Now you've got my curiosity up. I've never verified the story I heard. I gotta go look it up. Sounds like a hoot.
These multiple discoveries and simultaneous inventions happen sometimes. The classic example is Darwin and Wallace, of course, but a few years ago I had to do some reading on the discovery of Neptune.
The existence of Neptune was visually confirmed by telescope after its position had been predicted by mathematics, which I find astounding. But two people (a Brit and a Frenchman) were working out the math at the same time, and there was some dispute over who should get the credit. The French guy won, and then I guess a hundred years after the discovery one of the Brit's letters was found in South America and it became clear that he had come late to the party after all. Or something along those lines. The story is a lot juicier then the Leibnitz/Newton thing. Check out the "Discovery of Neptune" article in Wikipedia. It's not a nail-biter, but it kept me awake one night.
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49 minutes ago, Vort said:
It absolutely is a double standard, but it is not necessarily hypocritical. That is my point. A perfectly virtuous and honest Latter-day Saint might well invite his friend to Church while still declining his friend's reciprocal invitation. That's not hypocrisy.
True, but I'm not claiming that merely refusing an invitation can be hypocritical. I'm claiming that the combination of the invitation with an implied moral imperative can be seen as hypocritical if the moral imperative isn't applied equally to everyone.
Suppose I invite a friend to visit my church. When he resists, I badger him to visit because everyone should be constantly questioning their long-held beliefs, testing their boundaries, moving outside their comfort zones, and opening themselves to the possibility that other faith systems might be as good or better than their own. So he comes and visits, and then he invites me to visit his church on the very same grounds that I used with him. But I decline because I don't think I should be doing any of those things. Does that satisfy my definition of hypocrisy? Yes, it does. At a minimum, it drops me somewhere on the continuum between hypocrisy and inconsistency. And I read MormonGator's comments as saying that anything that even gives this appearance should be avoided. I certainly agree with that.
This is rather like the experience I described in my previous post. But I think we've entered the tomato-tomahto zone. And I certainly am not claiming that the Church is hypocritical... I view this as a fun debate over the meanings of words. In high school we all had to write an essay on the exact meaning of one word, and I chose "hypocrisy." I got a C.
- Midwest LDS and Jane_Doe
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2 hours ago, MormonGator said:
Every Christmas break I spend a week at a resort near Sarasota. About three years ago, I gave a copy of the Book of Mormon to another regular in exchange to attend church with him. I asked him to read it, of course. He did so (or, at least he told me he did), so I agreed to go to church with him. See? Basic human interaction. I would be a hypocrite (or, just a jerk) if I asked him to learn about my church without offering to do the same to his.
Hmmmm. When I first crossed paths with the Church, it was presented to me as something I really needed, and it came wrapped in a warning to resist complacency (about my current denomination) and to find the courage to explore alternate paths to God's true church.
Later, when I swiveled the argument around 180 degrees, my Latter-day Saint friends dismissed the entire idea of their visiting my church as nonsense. I throught their intransigence was at least mildy hypocritical, although I think I described it as a "double standard" that exposed their unwillingness to practice what they preached.
"No," they replied. "The moral imperative we gave you was not to explore random things, but to explore the path to God's true church. We've already found the true church [in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints] and we have a testimony of its truth. So we're done. The standard we recommended for you was the very same standard for us. No hypocrisy. We just got there one step ahead of you."
I don't know how fiercely this line of reasoning is still used inside the Church, but to an outside observer it felt like a sophistry. I don't disagree with Vort on much, but I agree with MormonGator on this one. That and $1 will get you a Snickers bar at your nearest convenience store.
- Midwest LDS and Jane_Doe
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4 hours ago, NeuroTypical said:
Dude: [slicks back hair, pops breath mint] Hey beautiful. I had a vision, and the veil lifted to reveal that you promised yourself to me in the pre-existence.
Chick: Whelp! Changed my mind. Sorry bro. Sometimes that's how agency rolls.
Wasn't that a scene from The Singles Ward? If not, it should have been. Very clever, bravo.
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3 minutes ago, Fether said:
Early in our marriage, I told my wife that she was not my soul mate and that I could have been happy marrying anyone else. And she could too.
She didn’t quite appreciate that.
I once knew a man who called his wife a "Johnny-come-lately" because he had met her after he'd owned his dog for several years. The man died later under mysterious circumstances. I do not know whether the wife had a hand in that.
I'm sure your wife appreciates your honesty, but I can't help but ask whether your skull now has a dent in the shape of a frying pan?
- Vort, NeedleinA and Midwest LDS
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Yes, howdy. So many wonderful things revolve around the Texas-Wyoming axis of excellence.
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6 minutes ago, MormonGator said:
I know what you mean. I collect statues of Ganesh. When I saw a statue in a store once in a small NH town the dude was stunned I knew who he was!
Just to show you what a simpleton I am, for years I thought Ganesh and ganache were the same thing: some sort of Hindu chocolate god.
- askandanswer, KScience and Midwest LDS
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3 minutes ago, MormonGator said:
I've always wondered what our response would be if a devout Lutheran (pulling religions out of the sky here) asked us to a bible study or to go to a church function. If we ask him to come to one of our activities, we should be willing to do the same.
My experience may be atypical, and times may have changed, but I dated a member of the Church of Jesus Christ in the late 1980s for a long time. I was not a member, and that threw sand in the gears of our marriage plans. Finally she asked me to go to her bishop for counseling to sort things out, and I suggested that I visit her ward now and then, and she come to my church (a Baptist church just down the road). This bishop was a very nice man, but his answer was a horrified, full-blown, technicolor "no," accompanied by a fist thump that jiggled all the books on his desk.
But my girlfriend would have received the exact same answer from my Baptist pastor had the situation been reversed. I'm not criticizing anyone, just observing past events.
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But wait, there's more. Mr. Sensory Overload returned to the microphone later for another screamfest. Start playing at 1:32:30.
The link won't embed here for reason, so here it is raw: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YNTWBhJnrBU
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These graphs are interesting, but today's Wall Street Journal had similar graphs with rather different data. Their graphs showed 2018 as the worst year for mass public shootings (10), with an average of around 5 per year from 2006 to 2019, and 6 so far in 2019. Of course, there are different ways to define "mass shootings," but the WSJ defined them as "killings that involve guns, with four or more people killed, not including the assailant."
I'd agree that most churches have few armed people, but there are exceptions. My own church (a Texas megachurch) has armed policemen at every service, and some of the deacons carry guns under their coats. I know, because I'm friends with some of them. I am also an employee of this church, and during the new-employee orientation I was told that I was free to carry firearms to work but that I should inform church security so they know who's packing.
I used to live in El Paso and would eat lunch at a restaurant across the street from that Walmart. Not a place I would ever suspect of being a target for mass killers.
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20 minutes ago, Traveler said:
Starting a handcart company late in the summer with minimal provisions was a mistake that costs lives. But the Willis and Martin handcart companies buried their loved ones and pressed on. Looking back into history we may wonder why so many apostatised in Kirtland (even among the first presidency and apostles) during the Kirtland Safety Society desister but for those that endured and went on are remembered and revered. Those that gave up and quit are mostly forgotten. And so I wonder - how will our great grandchildren and their children remember our generation? Did we succumb to the moment or will we be among those that achieved the greater prize?
A very noble thought. But I wonder if our great-grandchildren will remember our generation at all. A few years ago I visited Salt Lake City and stopped off at the Family History Library, where a very nice man spent 90 minutes with me helping me dig up my roots. He confessed that some people came in and didn't even know their grandparents' full names, which I found astonishing. I'm afraid the generation of 2019 will be known only namelessly as a society of fools who thought we could generate prosperity by borrowing trillions of dollars and paying the interest to rich people and foreign countries.
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Actually, I take that back. I've seen a lot of terrific television on BBC and am a delighted subscriber of BritBox. If one of their specials is a clunker, I could forgive that.
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22 hours ago, Vort said:
So I'm linking to an article that I suggest you don't read. Go figure.
May I then link to a YouTube video that I suggest everyone watch? Two videos, actually. They are long but they're great to listen to in the car on the way to work. If you are a person of faith with any inclination toward science you will find them fascinating, even though God and religion are not explicitly discussed.
The BBC has some great programs, but they're far and few between. The absolute worst television show I've ever seen was a BBC1 series called Come Back Mrs. Noah, which comes close to being an unplanned self-satire. And it starred one of my favorite actresses, the great Mollie Sugden (Mrs. Slocombe of Are You Being Served? fame). Episodes of this show are also on YouTube and would make a fine addition to anyone's public playlist.
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On 8/1/2019 at 9:51 PM, Jane_Doe said:
1) It's not the current sinful you that's going to be dancing around with Christ in the eternities. It's the PERFECT you-- the one that has been completely washed clean, over-bounding with love and goodness equal to Christ Himself. That PERFECT you is the one we're talking about. And likewise you PERFECT mom, dad, and other family members.
Thank you, I've been waiting many years for someone to say that last sentence of yours that I just quoted. I had many opportunities to convert to the Church, but something always seemed to short-circuit it at the last moment. I get the idea that Church members take great comfort in the doctrine of eternal families. Someone (maybe Jeffrey Holland, I don't recall) said something to the effect that he would not want to be in heaven without his wife and kids. One assumes that his kids are out of their teenager years.
But my story is different. I came from a family with irredeemable alcoholics (at least in this life), domestic violence of the worst kind, and parents who abandoned their children. The thought of my being together with them eternally was a real threat and seemed to be the final deal-breaker in my journey toward, and ultimately away from, the Church.
In any case, someone suggested I carry this topic to another thread, which I may do. Thank you for your thoughtful comments, which I always enjoy reading. Sorry if I hijacked this thread away from its original scope.
Tex
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6 hours ago, Vort said:
I didn't watch Marianne Williamson. Maybe she is the moonstruck Kumbaya Child she's portrayed as. But when she says:
why is this objectionable? Don't we pretty much agree with it?
I'm disgusted by Democrat types mocking those who hold religion as sacred and who speak in what they consider sacred terms. I see no reason to mock someone else who sincerely speaks in such language, even if I don't use that kind of wording myself. If she's a hypocrite, we can point out her hypocrisies, but to mock her just because she said "God" using metaphors we wouldn't use seems churlish, if not downright hypocritical on our part.
I see your point, but I object to vague, wispy, feel-good language that is peddled as moral teaching and yet fails the basic requirement of any moral teaching: to prescribe certain behaviors and proscribe others. "Please allow the flow" may sound like a nifty prescription for enlightened living with an elevated consciousness, but in practice most people I know would simply use the "flow" to justify whatever beliefs they already hold. I prefer the "go and do likewise" model.
And yet I still find Ms. Williamson an interesting lady, I probably would be enriched to have her as a friend, and I wish her well. I just don't think she can give us a meaningful algorithm for putting things out there for the universe.
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8 hours ago, NightSG said:
Now I don't claim to have always been innocent of that, but this particular passage seems exceptionally clear to me: keep your prayers between you and God through Christ, and don't announce them to everyone. Am I missing some other interpretation?
I've heard several other interpretations of this. The most common is the "vivid hyperbole" interpretation, which claims that Jesus spoke in extreme language as a way of teaching us about the colossal gulf between the ways of God and the ways of humans. The first example that comes to my mind is Luke 14:26: "If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even their own life—such a person cannot be my disciple." This is obviously not meant to be take literally. Some believe that Jesus is teaching us to love God so fiercely and with such focused devotion that the ordinary human love we have for our parents will seem like hate in comparison. Maybe the teaching on public displays of righteousness in Matthew 6 is following this pattern. I don't know.
In any case, I belong to a Facebook group for my county sheriff's office, which is very good about posting breaking news about accidents, traffic jams, and even suicides that need public attention (because streets are closed or yellow police tape has sealed off large areas). I'd say 75% of the comments are the "prayer" post, either the folded-hands icon or the word "prayer" spelled out. Hundreds and hundreds of them flow like lava down the page and then harden, spacing out the realtime updates and making them harder to find, as you say.
It would be nice if Facebook had a "Like" button for prayer that could be simpy tallied up and displayed as a single number before the first comment. I just Googled this, and someone actually proposed this feature three years ago. Facebook's answer: "We'll keep your suggestion in mind as we continue to improve Facebook."
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The discussion above leads me to think that I have misunderstood the concept of sealing. When I started learning about the Church, I remember my shock at hearing the term "sealing" in the context of marriages. I immediately thought of hermetically sealed or even shrink-wrapped couples before the altar.
But now I'm wondering whether "seal" means something more like embossing a gold-foil star at the bottom of a document, and maybe "a sealed couple" is better described as "a celestially certified couple." Is this a useful way of understanding this concept? Or does the concept of sealing imply some new level of spiritual inseparablility between a husband a wife?
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13 minutes ago, CV75 said:
I don't either, but the concept of sealing bridegrooms and brides, children and families is clearly mentioned throughout the Old Testament. This is what the ancients considered the greatest blessing (a heritage of heirs).
Is this in the JST? I'm not an Old Testament scholar, but I don't recall any mention of marriage or family sealings in the Bible versions that I'm most familiar with. In fact, when I mention the concept of "sealing" to my Protestant friends, they are somewhat startled by the whole idea, and one woman was aghast. But she had just gone through a messy divorce, and she did not welcome any doctrines that could threaten the finality of her divorce.
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12 minutes ago, anatess2 said:
OMG, JRM is quite something. I want somebody to needle him so bad just to see if he actually has a temperature above freezing. That guy can say to you, "you are a stupid idiot" and you end up apologizing TO HIM for being uncouth.
Maybe it's not my place to contemplate the nature of the celestial kingdom, but I've always imagined a place rather like some sun-washed Mediterranean village glued sideways into a cliff overlooking the sea where all the citizens and pets talk and act just like Jacob Rees-Mogg.
Anyone who can weave the word floccinaucinihilipilification into a speech deserves a special place in our hearts.
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2 hours ago, KScience said:
Mores you need to watch more Parliament on a Thursday, Prime Minister's Questions are always lively and full of banter. Its one of the reasons that females have historically been put off becoming MP's. Not terribly productive but entertaining.
I agree, but I thought Questions to the Prime Minister were on Wednesdays? Actually, I enjoy listening to Jacob Rees-Mogg more than Boris Johnson. The man's words could cut you to pieces and you wouldn't even bleed.
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1 hour ago, Mores said:
You're right. It is all very complicated. But I doubt we'd have anyone trying to attack us on our mainland. That would be suicide.
Even if Marianne Williamson were Presidentess?
Married brothers on church dating sites
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No, that's quite incorrect, and quite frankly I find it appalling that anyone could dismiss whole classes of people as failures or creeps, some of whom are honorable, lonely people who simply want human companionship. Certainly the world of online dating is filled with strange and unsavory characters, but confusing the attributes of the part with the attributes of the whole is a terrible error in logic.
I belong to a huge church and know hundreds of people. Of all the people my age (late middle age) who have married or remarried in the last few years, I'd say half met their spouses online at Christian dating sites. There's gold in them thar hills if you pan for it diligently.
May I suggest that you change your bio to, "Online dating is for people who can't get dates in the real world, or can't conceal how much of a creep they are in the real world"? If you're going to dismiss people with such a brutally wide brush, at least be honest about it.