Cassiopeia

Unbelievable. Really. Who are you to say such a thing to Wingnut? My word, I can't believe the things that are being said on this board. And I thought CF was bad. To think that people on this board think nothing of laying such a slanderous accusation at the feet of one of our sisters. There was nothing in her posts to even remotely indicate the conclusion you jumped to. I think you owe her an apology for that one.

I can't stress enough how important what Elgama said to you is. Please take great care not to destroy your child's self esteem and attitudes towards her sexuality and sex. Without the right approach you could actually harm her and traumatize her. She's only 6 years old.

It is impossible for anyone to know how many people felt the spirit that day. All he can testify to is himself. I've been to so many meetings where I got so much out of them and my spouse or kids did not. The spirit speaks to us in ways we can understand. Did the speaker have ill intentions or was she just naive.

Thank you for expanding on what happened in the situation. It certainly gives light to the situation. I still don't think what she did was "wrong" but rather misguided. Not everyone knows how to do what she was attempting to do. Hopefully anyone being given such an opportunity in the future will receive instruction first.

Me too, Pam. It's interesting how easy it is to over pack. I've been known to travel to a place for a week and only take a carry on and a backpack. You'd be surprised how easy that is.

So, one thing is certain, YOU did not feel the spirit. It isn't her fault that you or others might not have. She did nothing wrong. I've gone to many a fast and testimony meeting where people did the same as she and I've heard personal stories from tons of high councilmen and Bishops and on and on. We do have to take accountability for our own inability to feel the spirit when someone speaks. I've listened to many talks by Elder Dunn and on every occasion I felt the spirit. I've read many of his books that I found inspiring and also felt the spirit. Perhaps it's not PC to say that nowadays but I'll say it anyway. For all his failings, Elder Dunn changed my life as a convert to the church.

oh doggone it! Someone thought of it first! Guess I'll have to figure out someone else to sue.

I can see the importance and validity of wanting to help people to think but forcing one's opinion in an overbearing and critical way does the opposite. And one becomes viewed as that "troll" and from that point on, nothing they have to say is ever considered to be truthful or enlightening which is unfortunate because most everyone has something of value to contribute.

In fact, if you are struggling financially and don't have enough food, you should contact the Bishop assigned to your area and get a food order to feed your family. I have heard from several people that the church is happy to help people with food and clothing. (You can get simple clothing items at the Bishop's storehouse as well)

That's pretty awesome!

I'm glad I could be of help. :)

I would be scheduling an interview with the PTB (powers that be) to find out why you've had no hours. Why? Because you want to know what they might say about you when a prospective employer calls. It is frowned upon to just dump a job and not give notice and yet, if you get no hours you can explain that to anyone you interview with. It is summer time and enrollment is down so maybe you just haven't been needed. As a former HR director, I found it extremely frustrating when people quit without notice. However, like you said you haven't had hours since May. Just keep in mind that you OUGHT to know why you haven't been getting them.

Of course I do. It's a spiritual gift. You are 18 now. Give it time and you will begin to understand it more. Take time to study 1 Corinthians 12 to understand how many gifts of the spirit there are. Instead of waiting for evidence that your gift is real, keep yourself busy with school and family and work and let the things that you have seen unfold.

I do love that sense of community about our church. My son's girlfriend isn't LDS. In recent months I've had to rely on the church's help for food. She's come with me to the Bishop's storehouse and to the dry packing center and helped put up some cans for me because I've herniated a disk. She's made a comment on how she wishes her church was like that. All of us pitching in together and having a system of support the way we do. I am a convert. I was drawn to the church because of Joseph Smith's experience with Christ and our Father in Heaven. I knew that such visitations were possible and this was the only church that really believed that. There is so much about the church that is true and good. And there are some things that I still take on faith. But I know that I will grow and understand as time moves along. I'm so glad you are having such a wonderful experience. Food storage is one of my passions. I've gotten along for two years on my food storage. I believe it is a great practice.

You are not crazy...many people have dreams and visions that come true. I think you should date others. It will help you to grow and be good experience for you. You mustn't put your life on hold. Waiting around for things to happen can cause you to be frustrated and lose hope.

Well, if you'd like some tips on how to make it not so boring, I have a few. 1. Take a pad of paper and coloured pencils with you. On your paper, draw a snowflake and at the heart of the snowflake write the talk's topic. Then along every branch of your snowflake try to fill it in as much as possible with points the speaker is trying to make. Jot down any story they might share. 2. Think of things you might add to the topic if you were giving the talk. 3. Become a better speaker yourself by critiquing their talk and getting Dale Carnegie's book, Quick and Easy Way to Effective Speaking. It is heralded by Toastmasters and universities alike. 4. Always listen with the intent that the speaker will give out some gem of wisdom to take with you. 5. Eat before you go to church (not on fast sundays of course). 6. Get enough sleep on Saturday night so you are rested. 7. Learn to set aside your worries and fears before going to church. Life is tough enough, we need our three hours of peace and spiritual nourishment.

I'm so out of the loop. The video is great but I have never seen this site before. Is it part of this site and organization?

Of course I know what it means. I'm not attacking you. I'm pointing out that you flame people and instead of discussing the points, you go after the person. And now that we've had this nice interruption, we return you to your regularly scheduled program.

It is my business when you post like a troll on a forum such as this. All you do is add contention to subjects that are difficult to handle. Nasty much? Well, I'm not intimidated. ETA: Snow has edited their post. My response is to their original post.

Okay so I don't know what discussions you've had with her but perhaps if you haven't already, you need to ask her why she's doing it. Don't get into "this is wrong"...but rather ask her why she's doing it. I would scoop her up in your arms and sit with her in a quiet place and be very open with her about it. Sometimes, when a child feels safe in talking we get to the bottom of things. It might be that something has caused her vaginal itching and she discovered that masturbating made it feel better and so picked up the habit. Does she have a pattern? Like was she very upset when she started doing it? Does she do it now to get your attention? Do you see what I mean? As her mom, you have to be able to set aside your fears and frustration over it and let her talk openly to you about why she's doing it.

I will pray for any who struggles in this life. They are a child of God no matter their choices. The gay community is not an abomination. They are people who make a choice that is considered an abomination. They of themselves are children of our Father in Heaven and if we are to reach them and help them in their trials, it is up to us to extend them our love and compassion.As to the OP, I am glad to have you aboard. Welcome. I was once Catholic and I am now LDS. I find it makes a lot of sense to me. Had I not found the church I would still be Catholic. We do share much in common. :)

How can I help? Do you have specific questions or concerns? I think that you have an incredible gift that you will grow with and with time come to understand the purpose for it.

I apologize, PC for the rude manner in which you are being spoken to. I will give a listen to it later when I'm resting.

As a child she absolutely do NOT understand what she's doing. There is a natural sensation and need for it. I'm curious as to how you know she's doing that? I recommend that you let it go for now. When she's older you can talk about it but there can become an invasive feeling when having a parent harping on a child for something. I saw all three of my children do it when they were little. I ignored it and by the time they were older and could understand, usually around 8 or 9, I talked to them. Did they stop? I don't know, but they didn't do it in front of me and I figured I'd let them sort it out for themselves. Children do deserve discretion and privacy.

To what end do you attack the person you are responding to? Seriously, you make some good points, EXCEPT for calling them childish and accusing them of self-righteousness. Perhaps it is of no consequence to you but when I read posts like this, I lose respect for the poster and in turn disregard what they have to say. Can you not make your point without all the malice and anger? Do you think by attacking them you win the point? Self-righteousness manifests in many forms. I'd be sure to remove the beam from my eye first before accusing someone else of such a thing.