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It would really depend on what the insight was. Like Vort said, I would prepare for the consequences of what is about to happen. Depending on how well I knew them and what our relationship was, would dictate my response to the insight. For instance, if I knew they were about to die, I might start a conversation like, "hey, I just went to my attorney the other day and wrote my will. I was really concerned about my children and who was going to be their guardians in case my husband and I both die. What have you done? Have you written a will?" I don't think I would tell them "You are going to die next week!" If it's an insight about a particular commandment they might be breaking, I would perhaps steer a conversation into the merits of obeying that particular commandment.

I have a glass-top flat surface cook stove. So, I have to be careful what pots and pans I use. Back in the 70's, my mother bought me a RevereWare copper bottom pot and pan set for my hope chest. After my wedding, I used them for over 25 years. They were a great set. But, with my new glass top, they weren't the best set of pans to use. They weren't exactly flat on the bottom, so with my new stove they didn't conduct the heat like they needed. So, my husband and I bought a stainless steel heavy bottomed set. We love the new set. And, as time goes by we will occasionally buy a new pot/pan to add to our collection. My husband loves to window shop in the pots and pans aisle. Every time we go into a large department store, Walmart, or Costco he always heads to the department that holds the pots and pans. I have, in my opinion, too many stock pots, all because my DH couldn't resist buying new ones. We have around 5 large stock pots, and I only use 2 of them. And, only one of them on a regular basis. I don't know what he was thinking!!! BTW, my old copper ReverWare set is still in use, but only as my camping pots and pans. I'm too attached to them to actually get rid of them. DH wanted to throw them away, but I wouldn't let him. They still have some good use in them.

I agree that having the Spirit is the key to a great lesson. I am also one who hates breaking up into discussion groups. Other's seem to enjoy it. I'm a nervous wreck that I might be the one asked to give the summary of the discussion group. I don't know why this is such an anxiety moment for me. I'm perfectly fine teaching a lesson. In fact, I love teaching. Being a RS teacher is my favorite calling. Why the fear of giving the group discussion summary is so fearful to me is something I haven't figured out about myself yet. Also, another reason I dislike discussion groups is because I hate having to get out of my seat and finding a new seat with the discussion group. It's just a pain.

I think I need to make another trip to Germany real soon.

When I was a Senior in High School, in my English class the chairs were in a large circle. The teacher was at the chalkboard at one end of the room and her desk was in the back of the room. She ran out of chalk and asked me to get her a new piece of chalk. (I was sort of the teacher's pet). I went to her desk and got the chalk and was walking up to the blackboard from the back of the room. Since I was in the middle of the chairs all eyes were on me. I was wearing a long skirt and platform heels. One of my shoes got caught in the hem of my skirt and I fell, hopefully gracefully, (but most likely like a klutz) to the floor. I was mortified. But, I kept my cool. I just laughed, because I thought if I laugh at myself everyone else will laugh with me, and not be embarrassed for me. It seemed to work.

Berlin is on my bucket list. And, I've only driven through Munich, and changed trains there in Munich. One of these visits I'll spend more time in Munich and definitely visit Berlin.

LRK99, for your son's sake, and for your spiritual side, even if your husband is negative with you, please be Christ-like in your behavior to your husband. Whenever you choose to be unchristlike, the Spirit will leave. How can you make the best decisions as to what to do for your family if you don't have the Spirit? I'm glad you're going to visit with your Bishop. I'm hoping he will be able to give you good counsel and advice. I'm hoping you and your husband can turn your marriage around, where the two of you model good role behaviors for your children. Your son sees and hears both of you. Please be the type of wife to your husband (no matter how negative he is) that you would want your son's future spouse be to him.

Mirkwood, I am so sorry. I will be praying for his family and you and your fellow officers.

Bini, I'm so glad you're not dealing with depression this time around. And, having a "good" baby is always a blessing!

I believe most women are not aware of how important sex is to their husbands. Many men will say it is a physical need. For some women, they can do without it and not feel deprived. Libido can be influenced by many factors for women. There may be a physical problem such as hormone levels not being where they should. There may be psychological issues such as poor body image, a poor prior relationship, etc. She may have relationship issues with her spouse. From "Focus on the Family": "For many women, emotional closeness is an essential prelude to sexual intimacy. So problems in your relationship can be a major factor in low sex drive. Decreased interest in sex is often a result of ongoing issues, such as: Lack of connection with her partnerUnresolved conflicts or fightsPoor communication of sexual needs and preferencesInfidelity and Breach of trust"I don't know what the issues are with your wife. Has she been to a doctor to rule out hormone problems, or any other physical issues? Does she need counseling of some sort to help with psychological issues? Can the two of you discuss your issues without feelings of being attacked by the other? For men, when looking for a potential spouse with a high libido, (high testosterone levels), maybe they need to look for women who have hair on their face and chest, and a low voice.

I'm totally out of it. I don't think I've been to a movie theater in about two years. Oh, wait! I take that back. My son took me to see Sponge Bob 2 with his boys. Usually, if I watch a fairly current movie, it's because it's one that's on an airline flight that I'm on. When hubby and I talk about what to do on one of our date nights, there usually is no movie at the theater that we want to spend money on. If something sounds good at the theater, I'm not opposed to going. It's just that lately, I can't seem to get excited about anything that's out there.

I have often wondered if I hadn't asked for the spiritual experience regarding Family History if I would have received the experience that I had. I asked, and I received. But, at the same time, there was a need from the deceased family member. If the need wasn't there, would I have received? I have my own thoughts on that. Does this also apply to requesting Spiritual Gifts? If we ask, will we receive? Will we receive only if there's a need? Will we receive only if we are prepared to receive the Gift?

There is nothing wrong with attending a Family Ward. Follow the Spirit and do what the Spirit directs you.

I agree with Connie. I have many favorites. One that always comes to mind though is Enos: "And my soul hungered; and I kneeled down before my Maker"… I have felt that hunger in my own soul, where I also needed to know if the Gospel and scriptures were true. I have also kneeled down in prayer to receive an answer to that question just as Enos did. This scripture has always struck a chord with me. Just as Enos received an answer, so have I.

In my prayers I always pray for the Spirit to be with me. And throughout my life it is often hard to know if I actually do have the Spirit. There have been times when the Spirit has left me, and I could plainly discern that awful feeling. But, honestly, I sometimes am not aware if I actually have the Spirit with me. In my dealings with my family, friends, and even those I don't personally know, I want the Spirit. And, if we have the Spirit of the Holy Ghost with us, doesn't that include the Spirit of Discernment? I would certainly hope so. But, since reading this thread, I have thought maybe I should start to also request the Spirit of Discernment in my prayers along with the overall gift of the Spirit. I had a personal experience in actually requesting a specific spiritual gift where I received the gift almost immediately. It had to do with Family History. I prayed for a spiritual experience with Family HIstory, and I received a spiritual experience that involved a deceased family member within minutes of my prayer. I believe it was given me because it was a need that my deceased family member needed in order to progress. I don't feel I received the experience because I was "special", but because there was a need.

I doubt you'll have any problems. The Koelner Dom (Cologne Cathedral) is right next to the train station there in Cologne. It's a shame you won't have time to go through the Cathedral. It's beautiful.

Not only are church leaders often times heroes, but so are our parents. I have a niece who has gone through a painful divorce and her children are so disappointed in their father. It has gotten to the point where the children are questioning their testimonies.

This may be a little sad, but I have noticed that since I've become involved with the internet, whether doing searches for information, Facebook, and then the past few years, lds.net, I do not read as many books. I still read books, but not nearly the same amount as I used to. And, reading used to be one of my favorite past times. I could spend all day in a good book. Now, I'm having a hard time staying focused with a book.

Happy birthday, Vort!

After our dinner of roast beef, ham, mashed potatoes and gravy, green bean casserole, mixed veggies, rolls, and raspberry jello, we had all the grandchildren (12 of them, ranging from ages 2 weeks to 12 years) do a reenactment of the nativity scene. It was quite the show with several wardrobe malfunctions.

I know myself. I don't think it's a good idea for me to have close friends of the opposite gender. I don't think I could keep it platonic. And, I'm female! So, I keep my male acquaintances at a respectful distance. I do have one male friend/acquaintance that I chat with on the phone, Facebook, or text, about once or twice a year. My husband knows about him. He lives out of State. We mainly chat to get caught up on some of news of the missionaries from our mission. That's it. There may even be years that go by where we do not chat. We did go out on a few dates right after our missions, 35+ years ago, but nothing came of it. We keep it strictly platonic. But, I know it could be more than platonic if circumstances were where we were single again. I am very careful not to let this develop any further because it could be playing with fire.

Oh my heck. I just saw the pig.

I must be getting old. I can't handle the snow like I used to. I have a dental appointment today, and I am not looking forward to driving in it. I'm hoping the storm will die down a little and the roads will be clear.

Don't rub it in.