We do not need to be dragging every kink out of is hidden place to parade it in front of young/impressionable minds...
We do need to do a better job of teaching the basics. The basic physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual aspects of sex and there impact on the person and the person's partner. Once a person has a solid grasp of the basics, then when they encounter the various kinky possibilities, they will have foundation on which to correctly judge the value and impact of what they find