Lee

Banned
  • Posts

    315
  • Joined

  • Last visited

  • Days Won

    1

Everything posted by Lee

  1. I have a few friends that bring beer over when we watch sports together, I don't have a problem with it and neither does my wife unless they start being too drunk then my wife has a problem. Our house came with an impressive coffee machine so we like to show it off to guests, we store some coffee pods or beans and offer our guests coffee if they drink it.
  2. Not when we cook at home. If a friend cooks for us or we are at a restaurant we will eat the food if it has been prepared with alcohol .
  3. Well good luck with your wedding bro and we all misjudge people's intentions sometimes don't feel too bad.
  4. What were you wrong about? Your bishop being wrong or your friendship being inappropriate ?
  5. My wife is always telling me to shave and she tells me to change my outfit a lot. Most of the time she picks my outfit for me, my wife knows there are 2 things I hate her wearing and she doesn't wear those but otherwise she always looks good to me.
  6. Champions League final it is a soccer competition in Europe
  7. Around 6 years ago I played pro soccer and I knew the ladies loved my body because I was seriously ripped. Whenever I scored I would always jog over to the stand between the dugout and the cheerleaders and take my top off to celebrate. It was awesome I would see women look at me seductively, I would hear cheers one time I even let a female fan touch my chest. In nightclubs I would always lift my shirt up. Women used to sexualise my body all the time they probably still do. My wife sexualises other men sometimes if we are watching a movie with Channing Tatum I have to listen to my wife's appreciation of his body I just think it is funny. Whereas if I do that with a woman on TV my wife gives me the look of death. The point is I don't want other men sexualising my wife because that isn't treating her with respect, it isn't my wife's fault if they do that no matter what she is wearing but because she knows I don't like it I expect her to cover up to prevent it.
  8. My wife and I always question what we are wearing, if my wife doesn't like my clothes she will throw a new shirt at me and I will change. When my wife's friends come over I always make an effort to wear something nice I was asking her to do the same.
  9. I don't usually comment on how women dress but today my wife and I were lounging around the house all day so my wife was wearing short shorts and a vest top like what you would work out in. In the afternoon my friend was coming over to watch a game, so I told my wife she may want to get dressed she said she was already dresses, so I told her she may want to cover up a bit and she told me she doesn't have to in her own house and she thinks I am out of line asking her to. I like to walk around my house shirtless but if my wife has friends over I put a shirt on. Was I in the wrong for asking my wife to get changed because I had a friend coming over? Do you bother to dress modestly at home ?
  10. Okay so if you don't know the boundaries why would you not behave to ensure you stay in them instead of pushing them? How did your grandma give you boundaries?
  11. At the moment I can't go to church because I can't leave my nephew home alone. So he won't see me going to church. I have to convince him somehow to go to church. How can I do that?
  12. The Isle of Wight! Seriously! My mom would make us go there to visit family over the summer and there is nothing to do. Why do you like it?
  13. 1) Denmark I played pro soccer there for 18 months and I loved the culture and the people 2) Italy my wife and I toured Italy on our honeymoon and for a small country it is amazing how much every city varies. We felt like we were in a new country every time we changed city. 3) Israel there was a mix of ancient history and modern history, as well as, lots of culture. 4) South Africa parts of South Africa were beautiful and other parts were derelict dirt tracks. The wildlife was incredible and the food is the best food I have ever eaten. 5) England mainly London but other cities were nice too. Feel like I have to say England as I am half English but it probably isn't my 5th favourite. Special mention: Jamaica, loved Jamaica never wanted to leave.
  14. I love the Godfather and Jaws. I used to love horror movies but modern ones don't do it to me, I prefer suspense now and stick to Hitchcock movies if I want a thrill.
  15. My 2 favourite films are, Big Fish and The Count of Monte Cristo. Lost is my favourite TV show. My wife won't stop watching The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt so I have got into that.
  16. No I am not, I am not his father we have a different relationship.
  17. I have been with him his entire life in some capacity, I was even at his birth. We do have a close bond but I have always been his fun uncle. When he first came to stay with us we thought it would only be for a month so we wanted to make it fun for him but now it seems as though he will be with us for a long time. I don't think we can suddenly become strict with him.
  18. Tell him to read 1 Corinthians 13:11 "When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things." He shouldn't be so obsessed with Lego he is a man with responsibilities and video games seriously. My wife wouldn't have married me if I was like that but if she did, she would have set me straight a week into our marriage.
  19. How is an 8 year old supposed to know that ? and How am I supposed to explain that to him?
  20. That is simply because they don't seem like kind words of advice, it all sounded very judgemental.
  21. Honestly, my wife and I have 0 parenting experience neither of us even had younger siblings. We are doing our best.
  22. The thing is we can't give him structure if he won't agree with what we tell him to do. How is it a mercy to discipline him?
  23. It is too easy to say that every kid needs the same thing. It is more important to treat kids as individuals and understand their struggles. Simply, because some people in the world have been through more than my nephew doesn't diminish what he has been through.
  24. I don't disagree with that, what my wife and I take in to account is that he has never had structure or predictability, even now he doesn't know when his mom is going to be able to care for him again or if she will ever be able to. He doesn't know what changes will happen when my wife has the baby. He has a lot of worries and he feels out of control of everything that has happened to him, we try to let him make decisions so he can feel like he has some form of control in his life.
  25. I think the benefit of having a small family is that it is very close.