Lee

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  1. But they aren't real. I suppose if you may get turned on by a plastic toy with revealing clothing then to avoid buying it is a good thing, but I think they would have bigger problems.
  2. Could someone explain to me how collecting fictional female action figures could possibly be breaking the law of chastity ?
  3. My wife is a very intelligent and highly qualified woman, we believe that she must pursue her passion as she has been gifted with great intellect, much greater than myself. My mother never stayed home with me, I can honestly say I don't think I missed out. I had a very close relationship with my mother. I hate dogs. We will provide a great home for our child and we will always ensure our child is happy.
  4. I mean my mother raised me, I was only cared for during the day by my grandmother whilst my mother was at work. I think you can work and raise children at the same time.
  5. I think it is disgusting, when I am changing diapers I will be using disposable ones.
  6. My wife wants to go to work as soon as possible, because she has been offered a wonderful job. I had a great mother but she never stayed home with me, my grandmother cared for me when I was a child.
  7. Oh yeah my wife and I are currently arguing because she has gone eco crazy and wants to use reusable diapers.
  8. We are terrible at brainstorming, we tried making a list of things we need to buy for when the baby is born and we got stuck after stroller, carseat and a cot.
  9. I let my 8 year old nephew play on his iPad during the Sacrament. I suppose he will have to play offline now.
  10. If we were to leave a child there at 2 weeks or 6 weeks, would we need to enrol them before they are born? Where do people learn this stuff?
  11. We don't have much of a choice now, but we have always known we want 3 kids. My wife wanted to get her Ph.d before having any children but other than that we didn't have any kind of time frame.
  12. I meant more of a Nanny or nursery situation due in the day, I assume it is unusual to leave a baby under 6 months.
  13. I have a question, it is probably stupid. What is the youngest a child can be before they can be left with a minder?
  14. My mother was British so I like to stay up to date with what is going on in Great Britain. I have to say I don't see the fuss about this case at all, seems to be one every month in Britain. As my mother always joked the only was to get America to join a war is to tell them it is almost over.
  15. I can't possibly read the entire discussion, but I didn't serve a mission. Partly, because I had a problem with authority when I was a young man and partly because I wanted to get married. I knew a lot of people who didn't serve a mission because they waited until they graduated college and then decided to get married. I think there are lots of reasons that young people don't want to serve a mission or if they do there are lots of reasons they feel they can't and honestly if one of my younger cousins or nephews asked my advice I would probably tell them it isn't a big deal if you serve a mission or decide to do something else.
  16. We usually like to give him a choice in situations but we can't this time so hopefully he will get onboard.
  17. He is 8, we aren't worried about him understanding the situation. We are worried about his attitude because recently if something isn't his idea he won't go along with what we are suggesting for him to do.
  18. I have actually been in the delivery room before when my sister-in-law gave birth. We have one big question. How do you tell your current children that you will have a baby?
  19. Yeah my wife didn't realise because she has been super busy and stressed. We wouldn't even know but she fainted last week and I took her to the hospital and the doctor told us she was pregnant. My wife didn't want to find out the gender but I have my fingers crossed for a boy.
  20. As it turns out this thread was a waste of time, my wife is 4 months pregnant so I guess now I know the right time.
  21. I wish I had the time to listen to the whole thing but I will have to settle for a few talks.
  22. @JayKi I am glad you figured out the right thing to do. Hopefully you will get your temple recommend back in time for your wedding.
  23. I feel for you, I agree that your Bishop probably shouldn't have taken away your temple recommend as truthfully your sole offence is having a friendship with a married woman. If that was a genuine reason I would have lost my temple recommend lots of times. You also feel that your Bishop took sides and had made up his mind on the matter before speaking to you, am I right? I think that you should admit to your friend's husband that you have over stepped the line a few times. Then speak to your Bishop and tell him you have apologised for any misunderstanding. You are a lot more likely to get your recommend back if you admit to at least a few of your mistakes
  24. @JayKi I think you are a good friend and have been a support for her. Personally, if I was her husband I wouldn't have a problem with the friendship if it made my wife happy. My wife has male friends from College and I couldn't care less, sometimes they go out together and she texts me "going out for dinner after work, I will be home by 9", I ask her no questions because I am secure in my marriage. However, it appears that your friend's husband is insecure about your friendship and I think you have to respect his stance. I do agree with you that your friend should be the one to end the friendship. Although, if you love her as you say, you should do what is best for her and that is to scale your friendship back. A couple of questions: 1) Is her husbands objection to your friendship a new thing? if so what has triggered it? Is it simply the text message? 2) How long were you friends before she got married? I believe that your friendship is purely platonic and I believe married/single men and married/single women can just be friends, especially as you say she is like a sister to you. However, I think it is worth you stepping back even if it goes against your "morals", it feels like you may have to do this to marry your fiancee in the temple anyway.