Hahnzee Posted January 10, 2012 Report Share Posted January 10, 2012 So I am a very touchy person, my number one love language is touch. I was introduced to my now husband because he was FAMOUS for being mr. touchy feely! He would hug complete strangers etc. While dating I was always SO grateful that we felt the same about physical touch. Always hugging, holding hands etc. Ever since the WEEK after we got married, it's like I'm married to a completely different man. Every time I hug him, he just stands there and then literally pushes me away. I go to kiss him on the cheek and he pushed me away. He acts like I'm his grandma that's trying to kiss him or something, he even rolls his eyes and hangs his head. I've tried to talk to him about it and explain to him that it makes me feel unloved, and he says well you aren't respecting me and my space. I try to talk about compromising, and nothing changes. I've had him read the 5 love languages book. If I would've known , that would have been a huge factor in whether I married him. I would not have dated him if he acted the way he does now when we were dating. I try to talk with him, and he just say's it's not that big of a deal, laughs and leaves. This is HUGE deal to me, I feel like I'm married to someone that doesn't even love me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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