John11111

Members
  • Posts

    133
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Everything posted by John11111

  1. Yep way back in day as soon as a girl had her period she was ready to be wed off and start having kids basically its when they became a woman. Society has changed a lot since then though so here we are.
  2. I wanna step in and say that free agency is what makes life "unfair" Heavenly Father cannot step in and stop a man from beating his wife because the wife has been good and worthy and righteous because that would be taking away the mans free agency. Everyone in this life has to make choices good or bad and unfortunatly the people who make bad choices can make others suffer for those bad choices. If life was to be fair for all we would be living under satans plan and rule, we would have no agency and that would be a bad thing.
  3. Played and beat almost all of those except a few lol. My favorites are ff2 (iv), ff3 (vi), chrono trigger, seiken densetsu (Secret Of Mana)series. Is so many more not on that list that were amazing games I often will replay them maybe once every year or 2 I still find them much more fun then most games now a days lol.
  4. WOW what is with kids now days lol, when I was 15 if I had done something like that it would have been alot worse for me then what you got count yourself lucky. Grow up say sorry to your mom for being an immature little kid, pay her back for the money you lost her, and start acting like a 15 year old and move on with your life. In ~20 years when you have your own 15 year old kid you will look back and feel sorry for what you did to your mom and see how good you really had it.
  5. You dated a month and talkingabout getting married o.o ??
  6. I replied to your other thread hope I could be of help!
  7. None of us can keep a grip on that rod all the time we are not perfect. If there was a bottle where we placed all of our good works and deeds and obedience to try to meet the lords atonement how much of it would we have to fill to be able to get to heaven? The answer? none Jesus has already filled the bottle to the brim thru the atonement. We just have to repent of our sins and try to live our lives as best we can and do our best to do what is right. We will all stumble along the way its what we do after that makes the difference. As for marriage? Get married civily and worry about temple marriage down the road when your ready. It is a great commitment, ask your bishop about the temple prep class take it as many times as you need till you start to understand it all enough to be comfortable. A book id recomend you both read together and wish I had read before I got married or earlier on in the marriage is "His Needs, Her Needs." Its a great book that teaches a lot about how to keep eachother happy. Also id recommend visiting marriagebuilders.com its a wonderful resource on how to keep a happy marriage. Best of luck and try to relax enjoy life, enjoy your upcoming marriage keep faith in the lord he will help guide you and comfort you.
  8. Sorry to hear things are not working out for you. Marriage takes two people and you cant make the marriage work on your own. Pray and listen in the end the choice is between you and the lord he will guide you.
  9. Eowyn gave an excellent link, there is so much useful information on that website. It has been a wonderful resource and helped me greatly to get through my wifes affair. Also try reading his needs her needs. The forums on marriage builders is a great place to link up with others who have gone through this and have a lot of useful advice. Be active and commit to the relationship, it is said often times it is the victim who has to fight for the marriage at first it isnt fair it isnt easy but if you really love your wife and want to make it work you have to start with yourself.
  10. 12 hours? Not bad I think the record is under 10 minutes lol here is a youtube video of the speedrun. (WARNING SPOILERS)
  11. Im a survivor of an affair and I understand completly how you are feeling. Lost, not knowing what to do, angry, wondering why it is you have to fight to make the marriage survive! Have you read the marriage builder site I linked before yet? Steps to Recover from an affair/infidelity in marriage For me understanding the whys and how comes was very helpful it also gave me a sense of direction. Here is a start if you havnt already began from the begining which i recomend but may be more of what you need right now- What to Do with an Unfaithful Husband Letter #1 - hopefully this will give you some direction. It seems that your husband might be in withdrawal one of the three states of mind in marriage Withdrawal - this will explain why your husband is acting how he is now what you can do about it. You have to keep strong and commited and keep up the fight if you want your marriage to survive. It is possible to rebuild and have a more wonderful marriage then before but it will take a lot of effort and patience and in the end both of you willing to try. Seeing that your both going to counseling and dating again and making an effort id say you are already ahead. The road before you will not be easy it will be hard, very hard but in the end it will be worth it.
  12. Has been a lot of this going on lately I feel for all of you ill post this again as well as a link to some forums with a lot of people who have experience with husbands/wives doing exactly what your husband is doing. Protect yourself and you children before anything else Steps to Recover from an affair/infidelity in marriage For Newly Betrayed Spouses - Marriage BuildersĀ® Forums
  13. Is a lot of good advice here but something that helped me A LOT was the marriagebuilders site. Steps to Recover from an affair/infidelity in marriage Read all of it not just what you "think" you need to read.
  14. Whats wrong with dying your hair? Personally I never understood why it was frowned upon...
  15. I know its not what you want to hear but obviously you guys are having issues already getting married doesnt make every issue you had before vanish it could get worse. Throw in some kids and bills and so many other complications that arise in life and your asking for trouble. I will agree with the others and say I think its time for you to let go and move on. If you dont want to take our advice then listen to the one who matters pray about it and ask for heavenly fathers help on the matter.
  16. I lost 10 lbs when I switched to diet sodas, lost another 20lbs by doing no carb then low carb diet for a month. I have yet to regain that weight by contining to eat healthy slowly readded the carbs back into my diet. Find your bmr - amount of calories yoru body burns at rest and discipline your self to eat no more then that each day. Make sure to have a balanced diet, and dont eat out more then once a week if you can help it. Im 6'2" now and weigh 176 lbs, which is 2 lbs more then the ideal weight for someone my age and hieght. I dont excercise much aside from walking to park or playing with my girls. Occasional pull ups and 15 lb weights. Your biggest bet is diet and how you eat, excercise is good and helps but its only a fraction of your weight loss. More muscle raises your bmr however and can make it easier to keep off/lose fat weight.
  17. 3-4 hours a day is considered casual gaming in the gaming community. One game/match of league of legends takes 45-90 minutes alone. I know a lot of people watch tv for that long everyday and nobody complains about them being addicted -.-. I think managing his priorities could use some work though I agree with the rest of you there if something needs done or wife needs more attention the games go on the shelf.
  18. I dont doubt that there are several men/women that the lord feels we would be great or even perfect match with in the world. I dont believe we would only have the one how tragic would it be if billions of us are seperated forever from our soul mates because we never got the to meet them? Or maybe we all do have soulmates and maybe even almost all of us meet them and marry them but because of our agency we screw things up and our soulmates dont seem like soulmates and something that should be so beautiful and perfect turns ugly and riddled with problems... now thats food for thought.
  19. Should have a spoiler alert somewhere for people who havnt read the book or watched the movie -.- I dont even like to watch trailers because of that oh well thanks alot everyone =p
  20. My sister had same thing happen to her she got a low tire and cop pulled her and her friends over he said he smelled alchohol. They had just come from a youth dance and were giggling about something... gratefully nobody spiked the punch. My friends and I got pulled over after we were driving off from a tp spree the cop asked if we had been drinking or doing drugs and said he smelled weed! Then once at the park we had a cooler with sodas and were playing football I guess someone called the cops saying we were drinking and fighting. Cops came and when they were questioning us seperately cop told us our other friends admitted we had been drinking already if we confessed we wouldnt be in as much trouble... (why would anyone admit to drinking if none of us had been that was classic lol) I have had my fair share of dealing with officers imo abusing power - pulled over for going 51 in a 50, not having my headlights on when the sun had yet to dip below the horizon, for having my hand outside the window weaving it through the air, once for "turning too wide" onto a one lane road (you only have so much room hehe so?) and then once for cutting through a parking lot to "avoid a red light" (we were going to a blockbuster on the otherside of that lot..lol) In my 13 years of driving I have never gotten an actual ticket though. While I dont exactly agree with how police do things if it works and it is catching the real dwi/dui offenders then I guess I cant complain. It is the few who screw up that mess things up for the rest of us. I think we should be blaming them and not the officers trying to keep us safe. Same things go for officers there are a few bad apples but we cant paint all officers in a bad light because of the few who are.
  21. For every 10 mph you go you are supposed to put one cars worth of distance between you and the driver in front of you. You can get a ticket here for tailgating. Misdemeanor traffic violations are the number one cause of death on the road for young people. Drive safe you never know, that tailgating or going only 8 over can cause an accident.
  22. Nope not at all, out of the 7 billion people in the world the chance that your soulmate, the one person who you are meant to be with, happens to be at the same place at the same time as you... Then there is the whole concept of you and your soulmate even having come to earth at the same time. Who knows maybe your soulmate has already lived there life or wont be born for another hundred years lol but now im just ovethinking it all =p.
  23. I earn it all she spends it all... lol jk we both share income. She always tells me about anything she wants to buy, I tell her she dont have to ask. I never buy anything for myself really so never a problem there hehe. She handles all the bills and stuff as well.
  24. Likely they are the presidents of there respective quorums or counselor, secretary and are reporting to the bishop. Progress and activities etc ie who is going to bring the bread on sunday or who will say the sacrament prayers for future activities for mutual.
  25. Branson is such a great place to visit so much to do there wax museum, ripleys believe it or not, theatres galore and Silver Dollar City! Im glad it was left untouched we love to go there too.