LDSGator

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    LDSGator reacted to Jane_Doe in Sanctuary of the Church   
    I find that vast vast majority of other churches don’t treat their worship place as quiet reflection. Rather a place for joyful/loud worship, fellowship, and loud singing (frequently in the form of a rock conference). 
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    LDSGator got a reaction from JohnsonJones in Queer sister speaks at 2021 BYU Women's Conference   
    It looks like the church has taken the “talk about love and acceptance and tolerance” (your words, not mine) path. They probably won’t switch lanes from that anytime soon.
    This presents a challenge to LDS traditionalists. Will they continue to “follow the prophet/church teachings” or not? 
     
    It’s also interesting for LDS liberals-this is their moment too. Will they stay in the church as the church becomes more inclusive or will they jump onto the next social cause and leave? 
     
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    LDSGator got a reaction from mirkwood in President Nelson vaccinated   
    @mirkwood is afraid of guns, so...
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    LDSGator got a reaction from NeuroTypical in More BSA misery   
    Great point. 
     
    I am NOT insulting anyone who is a Boy Scout or those whose children are/were. But, for those of us who didn't grow up in the tribe, the Boy Scout thing can honestly seem a little strange. 
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    LDSGator reacted to NeuroTypical in More BSA misery   
    Many divorced people go through a period of being hyperaware and opinionated about everything their ex does.  I figure it's the same phenomenon.
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    LDSGator got a reaction from NeuroTypical in War in the Middle East   
    No. 
     
    Questions like this occur every time something happens in the Middle East. 
     
    If I wake up every morning and say “Today is the day I’m going to die.” Eventually I’ll be correct, but it doesn’t make me a prophet. All men are mortal after all. 
     
    Every time the PLO fires rockets into Israel (a cowardly and immoral act) someone asks the question if it’ll lead us to end times. 
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    LDSGator reacted to mirkwood in Can you cross the white line?   
    That is not a turn lane, so if you were makiing a proper right turn at the intersection and someone traveling in it as a turn lane  and hit you, they would be the violator. 
     
    Vort is also right, no harm, no foul, probably no ticket/action taken.
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    LDSGator reacted to Vort in Can you cross the white line?   
    I'm fairly sure that the answer is no, it's not legal. I'm also fairly sure that as long as there is sufficient room and no property damage takes place, most cops won't waste their time ticketing someone for doing so. Maybe @mirkwood can provide insight, or at least give an informed opinion.
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    LDSGator reacted to Backroads in Commercial Racism   
    I agree with notifying management or even corporate.
    I appreciate you not wanting cancel culture, but in my view it's the same about letting the cook know the food is uncharacteristically and truly awful. (Glass in the soup sort of deal)
    You're doing them a favor and letting them know there's a problem.
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    LDSGator reacted to mirkwood in Commercial Racism   
    Reporting this to higher management is not cancel culture.  It is accountability for terrible behavior.  Imagine if I refused to take a report from someone while I was at work due to their race.  Would it be cancel culture to complain?
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    LDSGator reacted to Fether in Queer sister speaks at 2021 BYU Women's Conference   
    well yes actually... I miss the days I thought you were a girl.
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    LDSGator got a reaction from askandanswer in US reactions?   
    Right. 
     
    As a child we tend to think there are good and bad choices, and there are. 
     
    You grow up a lot when you realize that in some circumstances, there are bad, and very bad choices, and you are forced to make one of them. 
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    LDSGator reacted to NeuroTypical in Queer sister speaks at 2021 BYU Women's Conference   
    @Vort, should you ever get the chance to ask one of our church leaders these questions, I hope you decide to do so.  Then come back and tell us what they say!
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    LDSGator got a reaction from JohnsonJones in US reactions?   
    Right. 
     
    As a child we tend to think there are good and bad choices, and there are. 
     
    You grow up a lot when you realize that in some circumstances, there are bad, and very bad choices, and you are forced to make one of them. 
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    LDSGator reacted to Suzie in Queer sister speaks at 2021 BYU Women's Conference   
    Not every gay person (adults) in the Church is “struggling” with same sex attraction. They are aware of their feelings and they ACCEPT IT and continue LIVING. It is not a constant battle for many and they don’t want to be seen as addicts “recovering” or “struggling”.

    In my line of work, I see young men and young women struggling to feel they’re not broken, and seeking (desperately in some instances) the tender love of a mother and father. They long for support from parents and family.  

    Sometimes they do have understanding parents who are cognizant of the difference between loving their child and supporting a lifestyle they don’t believe in. Many parents believe that showing any kind of care or concern for their child is automatically a way to support homosexuality. They use these weapons to manipulate their vulnerable son/daughter. When it doesn’t work out, a few of these parents clearly state that their child is now dead.

    I see adults as well and many in our Church.  The experience is a bit different, they are more grounded and they know where they’re standing.  Most of them do want to remain in the Church and they are very much aware that they might not be able to find an eternal companion - but just like Liv, they work every day to be better disciples of Christ. They have callings, they help those in need, they go to the Temple, and they are supported by their leaders. They are in good standing with the Lord and yet… time after time a few people within the Church shows them it is NOT good enough and never will be even if the Almighty God says they can enter His house.

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    LDSGator reacted to askandanswer in US reactions?   
    The response from the legal and human rights fraternities and from the Indian community has forced the government to backtrack. The Prime Minister has recently said that no one would ever be punished to the full extent allowable by this law and that the ban would almost certainly not be extended beyond the two weeks that have been announced.
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    LDSGator got a reaction from JohnsonJones in Queer sister speaks at 2021 BYU Women's Conference   
    @scottyg
    To be fair, as a young man in Catholic school we were lectured to quite frequently that we were sinful, lecherous, lazy, immature...while women were virtuous, mannerly, pure, wonderful...it got old.  It also got a little silly, if I’m being honest. We’d make jokes about it, even the girls would.
     
    The staff and church leadership at the school was too (Naive? Clueless? Politically correct? Stupid?) to see that girls would tease one another into eating disorders and also pressure the boys for sexual activity. 
    No, I have no idea how LDS teach their kids simply because I’m not a parent. But, if you constantly tell me how bad I am don’t be shocked when I act that way. After all, I’m just doing what you said and what you expect. So....
     
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    LDSGator got a reaction from scottyg in Queer sister speaks at 2021 BYU Women's Conference   
    @scottyg
    To be fair, as a young man in Catholic school we were lectured to quite frequently that we were sinful, lecherous, lazy, immature...while women were virtuous, mannerly, pure, wonderful...it got old.  It also got a little silly, if I’m being honest. We’d make jokes about it, even the girls would.
     
    The staff and church leadership at the school was too (Naive? Clueless? Politically correct? Stupid?) to see that girls would tease one another into eating disorders and also pressure the boys for sexual activity. 
    No, I have no idea how LDS teach their kids simply because I’m not a parent. But, if you constantly tell me how bad I am don’t be shocked when I act that way. After all, I’m just doing what you said and what you expect. So....
     
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    LDSGator got a reaction from MrShorty in Queer sister speaks at 2021 BYU Women's Conference   
    @scottyg
    To be fair, as a young man in Catholic school we were lectured to quite frequently that we were sinful, lecherous, lazy, immature...while women were virtuous, mannerly, pure, wonderful...it got old.  It also got a little silly, if I’m being honest. We’d make jokes about it, even the girls would.
     
    The staff and church leadership at the school was too (Naive? Clueless? Politically correct? Stupid?) to see that girls would tease one another into eating disorders and also pressure the boys for sexual activity. 
    No, I have no idea how LDS teach their kids simply because I’m not a parent. But, if you constantly tell me how bad I am don’t be shocked when I act that way. After all, I’m just doing what you said and what you expect. So....
     
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    LDSGator reacted to Jane_Doe in The grave has no victory... why do we act like it does?   
    My 7 year old daughter is .... well 7 and impatient.  She hysterically sobs when we leave Grandma's house like they'll never ever see each other again.  I'm sad when we have to leave too, even though I don't sob and understand the bigger picture.  I do like being at my folks' house and having them right there in-person. 
    When somebody finishes their mortal journey,. people are sad that they no longer are right there in-person.  That's just natural- we like seeing our loved ones and hanging out.  Yes, we Saints know that we'll see them again and have that bigger picture, which greatly alleviates the bigger picture sadness.   But it doesn't mean we can't also be temporality sad in the moment of loss.   
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    LDSGator got a reaction from JohnsonJones in No more taxes for $400k and under   
    That's awesome. 
     
     
    I need my eye soap! 
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    LDSGator reacted to NeedleinA in No more taxes for $400k and under   
    I figured it was so a Covid mask fit on more securely??
    brilliant beard = check!
    magnificent mane = check, check!
    Pre-covid NT...

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    LDSGator reacted to NeuroTypical in No more taxes for $400k and under   
    Y'all are on to me.   This is actually me:

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    LDSGator reacted to Carborendum in Queer sister speaks at 2021 BYU Women's Conference   
    Yeah, but we're not talking about @LDSGator.
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    LDSGator got a reaction from JohnsonJones in Depression - What are we to do?   
    I’m sorry you had to deal with that. It’s a heartbreaking and frankly, unchristian thing to say to someone. Shows a chilling lack of empathy.