omegaseamaster75

Terrible topic, I have always been of the opinion that our sacrament meetings should be Christ centric. We are the church of JESUS CHRIST of latter day saints. When a stranger attends sacrament meeting they should hear about Jesus, not the 4th of july or family history.... we can discuss that stuff in Sunday School.
I would discuss Christ coming to the Americas and its importance in our religion or the forthcoming of the Book of Mormon and Christs role in laying that foundation. 
 

Yes the conversations should go like this:
Random church member: "Did you serve a mission?"
Me: "No, I am a convert and I joined after the cut-off age for men"
 
Your one word responses lead them to ask the next question to which you respond with one word again.  Then you have a problem with the questions? It is OK to string more than one or two words together when talking to someone.
 
 

I seldom agree with @anatess2 but she hit the nail on the head. Once you are married you are her family. Not her mommy or her daddy.  If she is unwilling to be where her husband is you need to reevaluate your decision to marry because things only get harder.

I seldom agree with @anatess2 but she hit the nail on the head. Once you are married you are her family. Not her mommy or her daddy.  If she is unwilling to be where her husband is you need to reevaluate your decision to marry because things only get harder.

Mexico for me

Depending on the age it happened and his age now, I wouldn't get all broken up about it.  He's repented and moved on.  Talk to the Bishop about it.   

The fact that you are trying to draw parallels to the temple tell me that you are trying to justify something that you know inside of you is wrong or incorrect. 
Take a woodshop class and make a sign that says the same thing, hang it someplace you look everyday

The fact that you are trying to draw parallels to the temple tell me that you are trying to justify something that you know inside of you is wrong or incorrect. 
Take a woodshop class and make a sign that says the same thing, hang it someplace you look everyday

Did he forget about the act with the animal or purposely leave it out? I think there is a distinction. If he purposely left it out then yes he should mention it. If he legitimately didn't remember I would say that it is covered under the umbrella of his repentance process.
As a porn addict since the age of 12 it would be impossible to tell "everything" so that's just nonsense. He couldn't possibly remember every moment of sin and every moment of self abuse. If he remembers something later does he have to go through the same process all over again....I don't think so.

The fact that you are trying to draw parallels to the temple tell me that you are trying to justify something that you know inside of you is wrong or incorrect. 
Take a woodshop class and make a sign that says the same thing, hang it someplace you look everyday

The fact that you are trying to draw parallels to the temple tell me that you are trying to justify something that you know inside of you is wrong or incorrect. 
Take a woodshop class and make a sign that says the same thing, hang it someplace you look everyday

The fact that you are trying to draw parallels to the temple tell me that you are trying to justify something that you know inside of you is wrong or incorrect. 
Take a woodshop class and make a sign that says the same thing, hang it someplace you look everyday

The fact that you are trying to draw parallels to the temple tell me that you are trying to justify something that you know inside of you is wrong or incorrect. 
Take a woodshop class and make a sign that says the same thing, hang it someplace you look everyday

Did he forget about the act with the animal or purposely leave it out? I think there is a distinction. If he purposely left it out then yes he should mention it. If he legitimately didn't remember I would say that it is covered under the umbrella of his repentance process.
As a porn addict since the age of 12 it would be impossible to tell "everything" so that's just nonsense. He couldn't possibly remember every moment of sin and every moment of self abuse. If he remembers something later does he have to go through the same process all over again....I don't think so.

So a person can confess, find forgiveness, yet still have their sin revealed?  This is pursuant to your interpretation of Luke 12:2-3?  I am unfamiliar with that teaching. 
I am not taking D&C 58: 42 too literally.  The scripture says nothing about forgetting, or God's forgetfulness.  It says "I, the Lord, remember them no more."  I take this to mean the Lord actively takes the stance that once forgiven, he will not bring it up, or hold it against you, or remind you or anyone else about it.  

No matter what, it’s stupid to borrow money to pay tithing. So dont. 

I wouldn't see the Bishop about a past sin confessed and forgiven he might want her to do something silly like tell her husband about it.
If she lied it was a lie of omission, she is not hiding anything before God she has confessed and has been forgiven. What exactly will be revealed? answer NOTHING.
I disagree see not mature enough to handle it at all  see below
She needs to let this go and take it to the grave.

Tithe on what's left after the loan deduction

See bolded part, you need to really think about this. Have you ever been to the temple and not felt good about it? Are those just general good feelings that we get when we pray? Have you laid the groundwork to be successful in marriage? Are you educated? have a good job?
 
Someone said that? shame on them. What do I know, maybe you have met her and just didn't realize it. Or maybe it will bare fruit later. There really is no way to know don't get hung up on it.
Be patient, lay a solid foundation and your eternal spouse will find you.
 

I think its' funny you had to include showering...

Well now you know. 

So you have never been? is that what I am getting from your posts? Since you can only find quotes from Reddit.
How do you know the food is crappy? I mean you've never been right?
I HAVE been to Hooters. Recently. There was a time about a decade where the food was crappy, but guess what big boobs couldn't keep people coming when the food was bad so a few years ago they revamped the menu and now the food is decent. The women is tight tank tops and short shorts are just a bonus.

I have moved several times with the help of movers.  Use colored stickers.

You haven't mentioned kids yet, so I will assume that you have none. If you decide to stay with him don't have any kids at least not until he has proven himself to be a grown up. 
Sadly you married a man child this is far too common.  To those who say that it's ok for grown men to play with child like things here is the perfect argument against it.
My 2 cents See a MFT and give him a deadline to shape up and be a man. When he misses his deadline see an attorney. 

You haven't mentioned kids yet, so I will assume that you have none. If you decide to stay with him don't have any kids at least not until he has proven himself to be a grown up. 
Sadly you married a man child this is far too common.  To those who say that it's ok for grown men to play with child like things here is the perfect argument against it.
My 2 cents See a MFT and give him a deadline to shape up and be a man. When he misses his deadline see an attorney.