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didn't see Pam's

Spock is my favorite Jedi.

https://www.deseretnews.com/article/900025674/shots-fired-during-lds-sacrament-meeting-in-nevada.html

Um, actually, even Father follows laws or he never would have became our Father.

I used to agree with this completely but there are SOMETIMES points where it is just better for two constantly fighting, uncompromising adults to divorce and try again. I do think however the best case is to repent and make amends with your spouse.

I really like what you have to say here but I also see LB's point. No point in having two parents miserable and refusing to compromise with each other. The kids will suffer more than having two sets of parents happy and working together (best case scenario after divorce)

I gave your picture back to you the way I saw it. You brought up things he did before baptism when the atonement satisfied those wrongs. If you are asking for advice on how to fix your marriage then I can see you doing this. It seemed to me you wanted an audience to justify your seemingly emotional neglect to your lawful husband. You said he has never hit you but that he isn't the LDS man you thought he would be. It takes time JMom. Marriage isn't easy, even if you found the perfect LDS man. If you really wanted that since your youth why were you having sex and with a non member???? (Don't answer that, just ponder it please) Also of course the missionaries are going to be more spiritually mature. That is part of their job to be spiritual! No one can make you stay with someone. If he is truly that bad or you are that unhappy then let him live his life. At the moment your concern is your child. You'll most likely see if you wait your entire life being unhappy with your husband that your child knew the whole time. They most likely will tell you when they are grown you should have divorced and been happy instead of carrying a feeling of misery and discontent. I really don't get this statement. You can only be happy if he is reading his scriptures everyday and attending all of his meetings and such? My wife went to church, read her scriptures and was overall happy. She asked me to do things but at the end of the day she let me use my agency and eventually I saw her wisdom and followed suit. It took Years! again You don't even need a reason to divorce your husband. If you are unhappy then why string him along? Your child will understand, when they grow, you were completely miserable and eventually only loved their father as a friend. You have every right to post your private life on the internet and with that you will receive comments on both sides of the aisle. My advice? You used your agency and ended up in a tight spot in life. Push forward, do the things you need to be doing. Meet with your leaders, continue going to therapy. God will help you and your husband will either improve or worst case just fall out of your life completely on his own. Be the example, you knew how he was when you used your agency to become one with him. You vowed to love him in sickness and health. He is struggling with his spiritual fitness, continue being patient with him

Don't tell her until after you are married. Just my opinion.

Haha I must have missed that film

😍 Julie Andrews! She is practically perfect in every way. @Pale Queen

Lol. I suppose once in a blue moon is good. Normally fast responses come during a forum duel.

haha Bro, I don't know how to take this.

I guess I'll just have to start one in the future. Not like this. This is actually a really awesome forum. I like the old type chats with avatars and everyone chatting it up.

sadness, Thanks

O_O why would we be tasting you?

Hey Needle, I like the instant conversation. People all online at once. Talking and having fun. Kind of like being at a party but not having to provide food, clean up and leave the house,

I read your entire post and this is what I saw. You married a man because you were having sex with him and your family was leaving the area (I am assuming you wanted to stay put for some reason) So for the fact that he eventually got baptized, you know what that means? He was forgiven for all the madness he and you both put each other through. The Lord forgave him but since you brought it all up again ... well. He gave up all his favorite vices for The Lord, himself and YOU. To repay him you don't kiss him, you refuse to hold his hand when he reaches for yours, when you make love you only do so out of some feeling of obligation. He talks crap but apologizes to your face. You toss his dirty laundry onto the internet... I feel so bad for him... as a convert this must be a nightmare for him. He gave up his life at 24 to marry the woman he was sleeping with. He felt it was his duty most likely and took on his responsibility like a man. So far he has never cheated on you, except for the 3 pack condom. Which at this point we don't even know what happened to the third. Maybe it didn't even involve anyone else but himself because, you know, his wife doesn't love him anymore. I legit feel so bad for both of you. You because you married him because of guilt and wanting to stay in town and for him because his wife no longer loves him. ...... I can't write anymore right now. This post actually hurt my soul.

It doesn't feel that way in my ward.

I originally came to the forum because it had a chat option but the public rooms are empty. Does anyone know of an active LDS chatroom? Thanks

Yes. I find awesome stuff quite frequently.

I cringed when reading this post. The idea of losing 1/3 of my siblings so this life isn't "boring" for me just doesn't sit well with me. God doesn't a need a devil to accomplish his plan. Opposition can exist without rebellion of God's children. Also, if Lucifer can fall you better believe human beings in their 2nd estates can also. We act upon things and limit being acted upon but in mortality accidents and death still happen naturally. This "doctrine" seems to be circulated to make devils seem important and justified in being rebellious. It would be better if the devils never had fallen.

Hi Carli, If you prayed and the Lord said you were okay to say no then don't worry about things. You already let your Bishop know and you reaffirmed your answer so the stake president knows where you stand. While the calling may have helped you it also may have been you are the most qualified but not necessarily the only one able to teach the class. That's why the Lord said it was fine to say no. Don't over think it and don't let people scare you into doing something you don't want to do.

I have an older cousin call me up and sleep over in my room (when I was single) the night before he got sealed in the Temple. He said he needed extra support and wanted to make sure he was all set for his sealing the next morning. They would stay out late dancing at the different dance halls but that night was different. He came home early and got cozy in my cave and passed out. I remember kind of chuckling to myself but now I can see his wisdom. JayKi I wouldn't do it but that's just me. The Lord will help her understand you choosing not to.

Hey Chica, Welcome home! I am very happy your husband forgave you. I am very sorry you gave into temptation and broke your marriage vows. :C You most likely won't get excommunicated, just being straight up. Unless of course your Bishop feels strongly you should be. Here are some things to ask yourself (please don't respond to them): -Did you feel remorse? -Do you understand the severity of breaking marriage covenants? -Have you gotten over the affair? -Do you think you can remain faithful from now on? -If required, are you willing to be disfellowshipped or excommunicated to show you are willing to make a full repentance? Just go in with the spirit of prayer and take your husband with you. Ask for a blessing if needs be to help BOTH of your hearts to heal. What makes sexual affairs so serious is your marriage is the strongest bond you will have throughout eternity. It is so hard... to earn that confidence and love couples share at the start of a fresh , exciting sealing/marriage. The innocence (regardless if premarital relations repented of) that bond needs to be rebuilt. Also not to mention babies being born outside of marriage and disease. Sorry ... team showed up. Got to get work, just go to see the bishop. Everything will be okay.

I have used both: Apple: PROS - easy to use, security only because no one hacks apple (what are you going to steal? Interior design ideas?) Fancy phone design, water proof up to a few feet. Sound quality is crisp and loud. CONS: expensive for what you are really paying for hardware wise. Same phone over and over basically. Android: nice large screens, stylus on select models, processes faster than apple, cheaper for what you are getting hardware wise. Business appearance. Select models can be submerged further than apple if dropped in a pool. Cons: sound quality is horrible compared to apple.