Why would my fiance announce we are getting married. And invite

[Malloribaker]

My fiance and I and a couple of friends were driving, all of the sudden he says out loud to them, We are getting married next week on Wednesday  and even invites them. He stats how much he loves me. And then Wednesday rolls around and I am thinking he has everything figured out it is gonna be a surprise. Im super excited. And nothing I cant believe he even did that why would he do that?  Does he think its a joke. Is he not surious. I haven't even said anything and nether has he. I cant even begin to describe how stupid i feel. Why would he do this?

[pam]

I think you need to ask him and bring it up.  Playing with emotions is serious and not good for any relationship.

[estradling75]

Seriously???  If you can not sit down and have a heart to heart talk to your fiance about his motives, intents, and actions... then why are you thinking about marrying him?

Get off the internet and go talk to him and find out.   If you can't do this... then seriously re-think if you are really ready to be married.

The only person who knows why your fiance acted the way he did is him...  Trying the poll the internet to 'read his mind' shows lack of communication which will destroy any chance at a successful marriage... And it is totally ineffective as well.

[Guest MormonGator]

How long have you known him? 

As @pam can tell you I have a very dry sense of humor and often say things in jest-it's just who I am. If your fiancee is like this, he could have just had a botched joke that was misread. 
 

The disturbing part here is that you don't seem to know your fiancee well enough to tell if he's joking or not. THAT is the issue to me.

[NightSG]

43 minutes ago, MormonGator said:

The disturbing part here is that you don't seem to know your fiancee well enough to tell if he's joking or not. THAT is the issue to me.

MormonGator is making sense...isn't that one of the later signs of the Apocalypse?

[Guest MormonGator]

22 minutes ago, NightSG said:

MormonGator is making sense...isn't that one of the later signs of the Apocalypse?

Yeah I'm worried about this too. I'll go back to being a babbling idiot shortly 

[askandanswer]

On 28/10/2016 at 2:13 AM, MormonGator said:

Yeah I'm worried about this too. I'll go back to being a babbling idiot shortly 

Thank goodness that didn't take too long

[omegaseamaster75]

This can't be a real post but if it is.

OP you need to DUMP YOUR BOYFRIEND.  Do not answer his phone calls, do not answer his texts, tell him face to face why he is getting dumped and do not listen to any excuses. He is not a real man, don't wait for him to grow up,  you are worth so much more and deserve to be treated as such. 

[prisonchaplain]

There isn't enough context here to evaluate this. IF the boyfriend was playing a "head game," then @omegaseamaster5 makes sense. On the other hand, if this is dry humor, as @MormonGator suggests, then dumping the young man may not be called for.  The consensus makes sense here--communicate, communicate, then communicate some more. Are you two engaged? Should you be? Do you have the same end-goal? OP and BF need to be on the same page, then which way to turn will become clear. 

[NeuroTypical]

For all we know, Mallori is a 16 yr old girl.

[person0]

On 10/27/2016 at 9:28 AM, Malloribaker said:

My fiance and I . . .

If he is your fiance meaning that you are engaged to be married, why have you not already established a wedding date?  My understanding is that (assuming/hoping you are trying to avoid fornication) it is recommended that there should be no more than 6 months time between the engagement and the wedding date.
Beyond that I second what @estradling75 said, except in the context of what @NeuroTypical said, at which point I think we must all acknowledge there are too many unknowns.

Side note:  The OP has only 1 post, no response or follow ups and no other posts (so far).