I was pulled over about a year or so ago for also going significantly faster than the speed limit... it was my fault.
I received a ticket with the option of going to a STOP class. I said almost nothing to the police officer, complied, got my ticket and thanked him and wished him well on his day.
My older son, entire family was in the car, said, "Dad, you just thanked the officer for giving you a ticket?".
I said, "Yes I did. I was wrong, he was right. I deserved it and he was doing his job. Everyone showed respect, it is a two way street".
I did go to my 3.5 hour long STOP class... long snooze fest but that was probably part of the lesson learned - hah!